Advice For the Ugly and Average Guys

[PJKino]

Women are biologically inclined to be attracted to the "bad boy" (strong jaw, broad shoulders, and have a tendency to not want to invest in a relationship).

 

lol what the hell does broad shoulders and a strong jaw have to do with beign a "bad boy"

[DiscoChick]

Biologically women are supposed to be attracted to men who can provide and take care of them and their children.

 

This is what I'm waiting for.

[LexiB]

Figuratively speaking, you know what I mean.

 

I am biologically driven to spread my seed, by any means necessary. That means by force (rape) or to eliminate my competition. Is it ok for me go around beating up women's boyfriends (and yes, most of them I could easily) and raping them? If women really desire to go back to cavemen days running off biological instincts, I am happy to do so.

 

 

Ok this is turning ugly.

 

OP, for the most part I agree with your post. No at all fair, but this is the state of things in society.

 

OpenGL: Dude, hang in there it'll happen for you some day. But you've gotta stop being so dark...

[paddington bear]

Women are biologically inclined to be attracted to the "bad boy" (strong jaw, broad shoulders, and have a tendency to not want to invest in a relationship).

 

This is only true when they are in the fertile days of their menstrual cycle. Studies have shown that when they are not fertile they go for faces with more feminine qualities and a more gentler-approached men.

 

So, all you guys have to do is find out if she's fertile or not...at least it'd be a conversation starter.

 

"So, uhm are you like at the fertile part of your cycle?"

 

"Not that it's any of your business, but yes"

 

"Ok, I'm a beta kind of guy, how about we say I call you in a week? I'll seem much more attractive to you then"

[DiscoChick]

This is only true when they are in the fertile days of their menstrual cycle. Studies have shown that when they are not fertile they go for faces with more feminine qualities and a more gentler-approached men.

 

So, all you guys have to do is find out if she's fertile or not...at least it'd be a conversation starter.

 

"So, uhm are you like at the fertile part of your cycle?"

 

"Not that it's any of your business, but yes"

 

"Ok, I'm a beta kind of guy, how about we say I call you in a week? I'll seem much more attractive to you then"

 

:lmao: That explains a lot. No wonder I feel more physically attracted to androgynous Asian guys! I'm never fertile.

[randall]

So, all you guys have to do is find out if she's fertile or not...at least it'd be a conversation starter.

That's awesome advice

 

'Hi, are you ovulating?'

 

If she answers 'No' then us ugly, effeminate guys are in with a shot!

[A_guy]

You know what, I'm an ugly to average looking guy and I don't have any problem with these rules. If I want a girl I talk to her. Sometimes I get her sometimes I don't. What's the big deal.

 

I was looking for this reply. I talk to girls which I think are hot. What is the big deal? Every girl is different. One girls average could just as easily be an others hottness.

 

This whole topic is kind of subjective. I don't put limitations on myself or others and neither should you. Especially when you are dealing with looks.

 

Rules....lol.

[start-fresh]

God these threads are so depressing.

 

Hey, OP, does your **** smell like roses too? Did you ever stop to think the guys hitting on you are settling as well?

 

It's not my job to impress a woman. The quality ones realize that and it's the self entitled 'princesses' like you that give women a bad name. All a guy needs is a little self respect to see how petty and self centered you really are.

[D-Jam]

Meh...I've learned in life that one shouldn't take this stuff too seriously. You just get cynical and depressed.

 

If I meet women who want a guy way above who I am in the looks/personality/lifestyle department, I just shrug it off and move on. I used to get bitter and upset at how I was being rejected all the time while the "bad boys" got all the girls. Now I just see those women as headcases I am happy not to deal with.

 

I see the guys who get the women constantly complain. They complain about how she's clingy, a nag, a bitch, annoying, etc. That or they complain how they have to do thus and so when they just wanted to hit the gym and get with the guys to watch sports. That or even the ones who lament on how they wish they were single again so they could bang some new women.

 

I see couples who fight and have problems, or guys complain how they have no money because of the dating, or even the few who gripe how all the women they meet and bang are immature skanks...but never a real woman.

 

I also see the women who reject me to chase what they see as "better" and they too end up constantly getting hurt and used.

 

So I guess I just more or less feel better in the fact that I wasn't stuck with the immature nagging bitch and I wasn't used and abused. I know this doesn't come as a comfort to many guys, but it gives you a little perspective.

 

So a girl tells me how men need to work hard to get her, I just laugh and am happy I'm not the one working to get her.

 

She tries to make me believe I'm just "average" and I should settle for some fugly woman as a pity date, as if average to hot women would never fathom me...I just roll my eyes and think that's one divorce I won't have to deal with.

 

You have to find silver linings.

[Woggle]

If women want a man to make them feel special they actually have to be special. Simply being born female means squat. It does not entitle you to a lifetime of pampering if you have nothing to offer to a man. You have to inspire men to want to treat you like a queen and these days women have lost that art. Jumping up and down and demanding it is the least attractive thing a woman can do. D-Jam is right about these entitled princesses usually being more trouble than they are worth. The men I know who actually snag a woman like this usually end up miserable.

[Mr White]

Meh...I've learned in life that one shouldn't take this stuff too seriously. You just get cynical and depressed.

 

If I meet women who want a guy way above who I am in the looks/personality/lifestyle department, I just shrug it off and move on. I used to get bitter and upset at how I was being rejected all the time while the "bad boys" got all the girls. Now I just see those women as headcases I am happy not to deal with.

 

I see the guys who get the women constantly complain. They complain about how she's clingy, a nag, a bitch, annoying, etc. That or they complain how they have to do thus and so when they just wanted to hit the gym and get with the guys to watch sports. That or even the ones who lament on how they wish they were single again so they could bang some new women.

 

I see couples who fight and have problems, or guys complain how they have no money because of the dating, or even the few who gripe how all the women they meet and bang are immature skanks...but never a real woman.

 

I also see the women who reject me to chase what they see as "better" and they too end up constantly getting hurt and used.

 

So I guess I just more or less feel better in the fact that I wasn't stuck with the immature nagging bitch and I wasn't used and abused. I know this doesn't come as a comfort to many guys, but it gives you a little perspective.

 

So a girl tells me how men need to work hard to get her, I just laugh and am happy I'm not the one working to get her.

 

She tries to make me believe I'm just "average" and I should settle for some fugly woman as a pity date, as if average to hot women would never fathom me...I just roll my eyes and think that's one divorce I won't have to deal with.

 

You have to find silver linings.

 

 

:lmao:Thubs up .

I've decided that the best policy is to expend minimum amount of effort toget women. That way, when I get one, chances are her expectations and sanity are palatable . While all women have severe deficiencies due to cultural factors, I'm very lucky with my gf - she's sensible on all fronts, and even refers to herself as average, which I find exceedingly endearing .

[Marek]

To the OP, I hope English is your second language. Because if it's not, based on your poorly written posts, you better be good-looking; your intellect and simplistic views are akin to that of a 12-year-old, and that's a turn-off.