AD1980 Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 Didn't you know all children are raised with the attitude that they are "God's special little creature" (Pacino, Devil's Advocate) these days? Who are we to say anything negative in the face of all this rampant "specialness?" Have recently seen the raising process of a two year old up close and personal, and you would howl at the things this kid is praised and congratulated on. The U.S. has become one giant "brat factory." It is true we have raised a bunch of spoiled brats... But usually Men arent fed nearly the same fantasy bs that women are about their future mate..
Itzo Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 I see guys on here all the time complain that they cant get even average or ugly women and womens expectations are too high blah blah blah and they dotn even approach these women they expect these women to come to them becasue they feel that theyre are on the same level as them in looks I think guys feel getting these women should be allot lesa work then getting hot women Im gonna let you in on a little secret fellas even these so called ugly or average girls want the hot guy they dont look at you becasue youre in the same league and say wow hes hot they look at the hot guy,they probably cant get him and will settle for you but thast what they want Its YOUR job to woo these ladies and make them feel special like they are one of these hot girls you desire ,they will not just come to you Is it fair? probably not but thats life you didnt hit the genetic lotto so for you to get a women you have to be outstanding in other areas even to get these women you feel arent that desirable and shouldnt take much work Unbelievable?! You are so blind in life ... I would say you walk in trance without knowing what's going on around you. You walk around the streets in a shopping bag covering your head Hey .. be careful ... there is a tree, watch your steps, girl
Sivok Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 Looks will reel a girl in but it wont keep her. Of course women want the hottest guy, and men want the hottest girl. If we're talking looks, why the hell would I want to date a 7-9 if I can date a 10 super model? Luckily for guys, women are much more emotional creatures and being physically attractive is not the only way to get a woman. Infact, if you're really good looking but have no social skills, the only pussy you're getting is that of drunk bimbos at clubs or really desperate women. Confidence, Body Language, Social Skills are all giant factors in attracting a woman. Men, you're always going to do the approach no matter how hot or ugly you are. First off, it signifies that you have the balls to talk to the woman in the first place. Second, as men we are always the hunters. This psychology is even apparent on online dating sites. Just create two profiles - one male one female - and see the difference in inbox hits you get. To approach and succeed with women, you have to have social confidence. It's an absolute must. If you're looking to date 'out of your league', you need to stand above everyone else. If you need practice, just go out in the town and approach random people. Start conversations as basic as asking what the time is or talking about the weather, whatever works. Once you get more comfortable, begin approaching better looking women with these sorts of questions. You'll come to notice one giant thing in common - hot women don't bite! The best way to attract a woman is to engage her in a conversation that'll keep her thinking and entertained. If you don't have good social skills, that's next to impossible. Next, do not place a woman above yourself in value. View her as an equal, not a superior. The second you act like just another loser/wussbag, you'll lose her interest immediately. That means constantly worshipping her. In your mind you may think 'oh if I worship her and always bend to her will like an obedient puppy she'll love me!'. Not true. Although it may sound ideal, it's not attractive. A woman cannot choose who she's attracted to, nor who they lose attraction to. Unless you're well into a relationship, being overly mushy is a sure recipe to losing that attraction. That's why you see the jerks always with the hottest women - it's because they keep women wanting more; they're extremely confident, have great body language, social skills, and keep their women wanting more. The trap that women get themselves into is that alot of the time the reason these 'jerks' are like this is simply because they place the woman wayy under them. The confident guy who can keep his woman wanting more yet treat her right is the #1 recipe women seek in a man, strive to be that guy! Social skills aside, the next giant thing is body language. Women are naturally attracted to the leader type, the dominant alpha male. The 'alpha male' is confident of himself and relaxed. Never slouch, move with slow confident movements, speak slowly and collectively, take up space when you sit, dont lean in, maintain eye contact, and dont be overly giddy. Well hope this helps. It sure did for me. I dont have the greatest looks in the world and I'm currently in a relationship with a girl 'out of my league'. If I can do it you guys can too . Confidence, Body Language, Social Skills!!
meerkat stew Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 But usually Men arent fed nearly the same fantasy bs that women are about their future mate.. Based on what I see out there, the "daddy's princess" method of daughter raising is going away, at least where my friends are concerned, but the "everybody is special" method is increasing even more rapidly.
Pizzaman81 Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 ...You know what? F you. Seriously. So not only are you ugly on the outside, you are on the inside as well.
OpenGL Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 So not only are you ugly on the outside, you are on the inside as well. And the OP and women with her attitude aren't ugly?
silic0ntoad Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 This is preposterous. Seriously. Now people are starting to take looks down to social behaviors? Epic.
PJKino Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 And the OP and women with her attitude aren't ugly? I think we know the type of dudes who knock the Men and never the womens and their angle on here Let em do his thing,hopefully it works for him
Pizzaman81 Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 And the OP and women with her attitude aren't ugly? OP was giving pointers and advice. But you went hostile
OpenGL Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 OP was giving pointers and advice. But you went hostile So what? The "I'm special because I'm a woman" thing is a ugly attitude. When I see ugly I react with ugly.
txsilkysmoothe Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 I hate seeing these kinds of threads - men should not be bashed. Women should not be bashed. Most people find the same traits attractive. So whether below average, average, or above average, we're all going to gravitate and prefer above average looking people. With maturity comes knowledge and you learn that looks aren't everything and true happiness and love can be found by not looking at the external but the internal. Unfortunately, some people never mature. I will not judge all men based on the women bashing posts I have seen on LS and I hope men will not judge all women based on the men bashing posts.
OpenGL Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 With maturity comes knowledge and you learn that looks aren't everything Not from my experience. I'm almost 30, when are women going to actually learn this? In their 40's after they popped out 4-5 kids with 4-5 different guys who are currently in jail?
meerkat stew Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 This is preposterous. Seriously. Now people are starting to take looks down to social behaviors? Epic. Not so preposterous, more chicken and egg, and an interesting question. It has been a commonly held belief for hundreds of years that how people are treated in life due to their looks and other factors influences their personalities and how they face the world, much moreso than the belief that people start off with bad personalities and then limit their chances going forward due to personality failings. Kind of a nature/nurture debate.
PJKino Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 Not so preposterous, more chicken and egg, and an interesting question. It has been a commonly held belief for hundreds of years that how people are treated in life due to their looks and other factors influences their personalities and how they face the world, much moreso than the belief that people start off with bad personalities and then limit their chances going forward due to personality failings. Kind of a nature/nurture debate. Its not outlandish,look at pedophiles for instance you see pcitures on the news of thme and say to yourself wow he looekd like a pedophile
betamanlet Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 Not from my experience. I'm almost 30, when are women going to actually learn this? In their 40's after they popped out 4-5 kids with 4-5 different guys who are currently in jail? Wrong, when they're that age money becomes more important than bad boys, at least for who they are actually "with'. Remember bad boys only want young, attractive women... At that magical moment when bad boys stop being attracted to them, money becomes more important to those women.
Pizzaman81 Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 Ok if we are going to go back to our primal instincts, why don't I just bash you over the head and drag you into the kitchen? I mean, whats what I'm biologically programmed to do. You can't do that any more, they outlawed that in the 60s.... 60s B.C
OpenGL Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 You can't do that any more, they outlawed that in the 60s.... 60s B.C So women only talk about "biological instincts" when it's advantageous to them? Awesome
txsilkysmoothe Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 Not from my experience. I'm almost 30, when are women going to actually learn this? In their 40's after they popped out 4-5 kids with 4-5 different guys who are currently in jail? Probably after 30, if they're still single, they then realize it's time to face reality. Have you considered women in their 40's? A little cougar experience....meooooowww!!!
Brady_to_Moss Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 WHy is it a guys job to woo the girl? Why are women so afraid to man up and do it themselves? If women tried a little harder...you know how many more happy couples there would be in the world? If a beautiful girl came up to me and started hitting on me..i would love it...but does it ever happen? NO
OpenGL Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 Probably after 30, if they're still single, they then realize it's time to face reality. Have you considered women in their 40's? A little cougar experience....meooooowww!!! I'll pass.
annxxdisaster Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 So women only talk about "biological instincts" when it's advantageous to them? Awesome Women are biologically inclined to be attracted to the "bad boy" (strong jaw, broad shoulders, and have a tendency to not want to invest in a relationship).
OpenGL Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 Women are biologically inclined to be attracted to the "bad boy" (strong jaw, broad shoulders, and have a tendency to not want to invest in a relationship). And I am biologically inclined to beat women over the head and throw their ass in the kitchen.
annxxdisaster Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 Men aren't biologically programed to beat women and chuck them into the oven like that. You just want to find a nice girl with the proper hip-to-waist ratio that looks like a good candidate for you to impregnate. After you do that, you move on to the next one. They didn't have things like kitchens back in the stone age!
OpenGL Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 Men aren't biologically programed to beat women and chuck them into the oven like that. You just want to find a nice girl with the proper hip-to-waist ratio that looks like a good candidate for you to impregnate. After you do that, you move on to the next one. They didn't have things like kitchens back in the stone age! Figuratively speaking, you know what I mean. I am biologically driven to spread my seed, by any means necessary. That means by force (rape) or to eliminate my competition. Is it ok for me go around beating up women's boyfriends (and yes, most of them I could easily) and raping them? If women really desire to go back to cavemen days running off biological instincts, I am happy to do so.
randall Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 Women are biologically inclined to be attracted to the "bad boy" (strong jaw, broad shoulders, and have a tendency to not want to invest in a relationship). Women are biologically programmed to be attracted to men who don't want relationships? Biologically women are supposed to be attracted to men who can provide and take care of them and their children. You turned it around in an attempt to try and justify attraction to 'bad boys'.
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