My Exbf is trying to make me jealous. How do I handle it?

[9Lives]

Hi my ex and I run in the same cirlces and we have broken up. I dont want him back but I still care about him. I really want to be cool and move on. I just want to know how should I carry myself when he is flirting and stuff like that in my face. Plus he is seeing another girl and she will be around too. I just want to be prepared in advance. I dont want to react negatively. Please tell me how to handle it.

 

i think I should ignore him and play it cool, right?

[cybersister]

Remember he cannot MAKE you jealous.

You have a choice- and if it's true that you do not want him back there is no reason to be so.

Play it cool , and if it's right that is what he is trying to do he will soon stop. Especially if he wants to impress his new woman, cos flaunting someone is not cool and she could feel awkward. Why not make overtures of friendship to her yourelf so he will see his lack of power over you.

[9Lives]

Remember he cannot MAKE you jealous.

You have a choice- and if it's true that you do not want him back there is no reason to be so.

Play it cool , and if it's right that is what he is trying to do he will soon stop. Especially if he wants to impress his new woman, cos flaunting someone is not cool and she could feel awkward. Why not make overtures of friendship to her yourelf so he will see his lack of power over you.

 

well like I mentioned, I still care about him but I don't want to work things out. I just need to be prepared for the moment. you know that emotions sometimes do what they do. but u are right.. thats why I'm asking how to handle these situations.