tinaababy Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 hey everyone, I am 18 and i recently attended an adult school where I met my now-ex boyfriend who is 27. We hung out quite a few times before I knew he was 27, and that he has a child, by then it was just too late to change my mind about liking him. I thought he was at max 23 or 24, and he thought i was at least 20 appearently. so, whatever i found out, and i didnt really care, i really liked him, we saw eachother like every other day, sleepovers on the weekend it wasnt long before he was a broken record about me being his girlfriend and being so lucky he found me. everything seems great but i dont trust very easily and I just had this instinct he was cheating. I looked at his phone one night and it turns out my assumtions were right, he was tryin to get bootycalls n they all werent down, but he tried.... so I dont really know why but i didnt say anything about it, and it had only been like a month of dating?..and so many times I would be like lets just be friends with benefits i know your gunna hook up with other girls, and hes just like no i dont do friends with benefits blah blah blah ..he went on a trip callin me up everyday bout how much he misses me comes back saw me every day tht week, i kinda felt it was to much and i started sayin no to chill with him for a few days.....then he got all sour and was like i have no time for him and stuff, and i was confused cause he was looking for other pumpum anyways .... so next time we hang out, theres a conversation about him and this girl hookin up and pictures of her pussy... again.. i didnt say anything... we had a few good weeks then i took his phone by accident one day and i had opportunity to look so i did there were like at least 3 girls he was talking about doing it with them.. discusting.. then his friend that hates me found out we were dating and he said we needed to "cool it" ... but i think it was because he sensed that i was only stickin around for the sex.. but he made the break up so like, he soo doesnt want to break up, he still really likes me, hes only good if im good, and he still asks me to hangout everyday.. hes like seriously i really like you but when it stops being fun and starts being drama we gotta cool it and pick it up later. and i confronted him about the cheating and he said him and that girl with the pics just are old friends with benefits .. thats just how they talk they're joking.. like im not a dumbass. think its worth it to even give him a peice anymore? i mean even his baby knew about me and his best girl friend didnt..she hates me for no reason, before we even talked to eachother she was talkin smack about me ..and he talks smack about her??!
counterman Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 No, he is not worth your time anymore. If you want something serious, then you better look elsewhere because he has been seeing other girls and he is probably only keeping you there for the sex. If issues do develop, you work together through them NOT drop the relationship then pick it up again. That's not how it works. I don't think he's worth your time and I think it's pretty disgusting of him to be having sex with other girls and talking to them about it.
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