i lost the kid im supposed to be withh ad now hes with another girll:(

[brirehab]

okay im 17 and hes 16 1/2 and we have been on and off for two years since the day i met him. it was imidate chemistry and our relationship was true love like we are perfect for each other..we are basically the same person. the only thing is, is he lives thirty minutes away and ive been homebound for the last year and three months from my sckness and ive only seen him nine times in the two years weve know each other. and around september i got in this deep depression and i was takin everything out on him and draggining him down and bein a bitch basically and we were fightin everyday and i became a little controling. then dec third he decided he couldnt handle it all..i dont blame him and he called it quits.

 

a week after we broke up he was still tellin me he loved me and he wanted to be with me in the future but then all of a sudden he stopped and hooked up with this girl jesse he used to like. he then started liking her and told me he didnt wanna sulk and wanted to move on and just wants to be friends and then dec 30 they became a couple and theyre movin pretty fast and see each other everyday. is it a rebound?

 

my ex was still callin me untill i told him january third i didnt wanna talk anymore. we stopped talkin till janbuary 20th he called me to 'check up on me' the convo went good then the next day i called him to see how he was doin cause he was sick and again it went good and these were six minute little conversations and then the next day he called me but i told him the guy i was 'seein' thought my ex was still inlove wit me and he wanted me to stop talkin to him..so he kinda feels like he was dumped. at first my ex was like thats understandable and then a little later he was like thats ****ed up and he sounded kinda upset and we talked for a little and then hung up

 

the girl has some qualitys i have and some i dont..shes dorkier and uglier and smarter then me and seems like she holds back when shes mad and im not like that. they dont fight and are still together and its been a month

ive been workin onmyself and got myself together and im not depressed anymore and have a better outlook on things and im happier but the only thing im missing is him. i miss him soo much. do you think theres a chance of him coming back on his own?

[Rollercoasterr]

You do realize that this is high school, and that he's probably going to be with a lot more girls than you, don't you??? I'm not that much older than you, but I really feel bad when girls seem to think that these sort of things last forever. They don't. I thought that, and was with a guy for 4 years of my life.

 

The first thing you need to work on is growing up a bit. In the real, and adult world you don't put someone else down by saying that they're uglier and dorkier than you. You lost. He's with her. He obviously sees something in her that he doesn't see in you.

 

Sure, he might come back and he might not. But if he does he will more than likely only be with you for a few months, you'll break up, and he'll move on. That's the way high school relationships go. Nature of the beast, and harsh to say, I know you wont believe it and you'll think I'm just being a mean adult that doesn't know anything. But keep in mind that I'm only 21. I'm not scorned over losing my high school love, I left him. This is just hard facts that high school relationships rarely, and I mean rarely ever work out.

 

Like I said earlier, work on growing up and acting like an adult and you'll be much happier in your life and love.

[SuburbanOblivion]

Could we just get a 'Yeah, what Rollercoasterr said!' quick link and be done with it?

 

She is wise for a young one, listen to her!

[brirehab]

So like, you were a bitch to a guy, so you broke up, and now you're sad that he's dating someone who isn't a bitch to him? And you want him to come back? Nope, move on, work on your issues!

 

 

nahh you dont even know the whole situation and she could be i dont know

[Rollercoasterr]

But yet you're the one talking crap about her on the internet??

 

Yeah, he dodged a bullet there. He must feel TONS better.

[brirehab]

But yet you're the one talking crap about her on the internet??

 

Yeah, he dodged a bullet there. He must feel TONS better.

 

 

what the **** are you saying? why are you such a bitch? sorry you and your first love didnt work out but dont have a stick up your ass bout everyone else and their relationships. first loves do work out...my mom and dad where highschool sweethearts so where like a couple of my aunts and uncles

[Rollercoasterr]

Not my first love, not even close. I got my first love and we're getting married in June.

 

You are the way you are because you think you're better than this girl. Clearly you're not or he'd be with you. He's with her.

 

At the end of the day when you're so stuck up on yourself and you think you're the princess of the world, just remember. You lost him to HER. She's HIS princess now.

[brirehab]

Wow you're one of those teenage "OMFG I LOVE YOU WE'RE GETTING MARRIED RAWR" types, good thing he moved on.

 

first of all im not like that at all so stfu cause you dont know me but if you got somethin good with somebody why would you let it go and he didnt move on hes in a rebound relationship stop bein so ignorant and get a life

[brirehab]

Not my first love, not even close. I got my first love and we're getting married in June.

 

You are the way you are because you think you're better than this girl. Clearly you're not or he'd be with you. He's with her.

 

At the end of the day when you're so stuck up on yourself and you think you're the princess of the world, just remember. You lost him to HER. She's HIS princess now.

 

 

hes with her because we couldnt be together cause it was a bad time and he couldnt handle it all and i didnt lose him to her she just came outta no where. dont talk untill you have your facts straight

[brirehab]

you mean all this?

 

 

 

 

I think we got our facts str8

 

 

ewww why are you still talking stfu and get a life you dont know ****

[Rollercoasterr]

Awww, and obviously you don't either!!! So cute when children try to act like adults and only end up acting like even more of a child.

 

Tell yourself whatever you have to in order to keep your princess complex going.

 

Have a nice life!

[Shark]

my ex was still callin me untill i told him january third i didnt wanna talk anymore. we stopped talkin till janbuary 20th he called me to 'check up on me' the convo went good then the next day i called him to see how he was doin cause he was sick and again it went good and these were six minute little conversations and then the next day he called me but i told him the guy i was 'seein' thought my ex was still inlove wit me and he wanted me to stop talkin to him..so he kinda feels like he was dumped. at first my ex was like thats understandable and then a little later he was like thats ****ed up and he sounded kinda upset and we talked for a little and then hung up

 

Uhh...you are going out with another guy, want your ex back from another girl, being a "bitch" to him and he "kinda feels like he was dumped". There isn't any 'kinda' about it. You are playing both guys and all I see you wanting is your ego bigger because you darn sure don't act like you care about them or how you treat either one of them.. Your behavior is still controlling...not past tense.