My problems always tend to be different then everyone else's.

[Hectors a musician]

Ok for starters i'm in school right now . I like a girl but until last week i didnt know much about her . One of her bestfriends is my girl bestfriend . She asked her today about what she thinks about me . The girl told her that am a nice guy and all but she really doesnt want a realtionship at all . Its not because of me though . I really need help in this , i dont wanna lose this one because i think shes worth it . Can anyone help me on how to change her mind ?

 

P.S she doesnt know i like her , or that i know that her friend talked to her.

[counterman]

Dude, you're in school! She's not worth your effort at all if she does not want a relationship, which most probably means that she's not interested in you. Also, there is nothing you can do to change her mind. If she's not interested in a relationship, then she's not.

 

Just talk to other girls.

[SoulSearch_CO]

P.S she doesnt know i like her , or that i know that her friend talked to her.

Teehee. That's what you think. GIRLS TALK. Even if they tell you they don't. At that age - yes, they do. (I guess i should ask your ages, but I'm going by the tone of the post and assuming you're high-school.)

 

But if she said you're a nice enough guy, but she doesn't want a relationship, that sounds like she's not interested in you at all - move along. She said you were a nice guy to the girl because she knew it would get back to you and didn't want to hurt your feelings.

[Hectors a musician]

The thing is that . Even though my best friend is a girl , i know for a fact she wouldn't do that I'm almost 100% sure of it . I forgot to mention it earlier but the girl told that to my friend before she even asked her . She didn't want a relation ship at ALL with no one . Thats why i though maybe i could have changed her mind.

[TouchedByViolet]

Thats why i though maybe i could have changed her mind.

 

 

If only we could change peoples minds and hearts... this forum would not exist