Author cognac Posted February 2, 2010 Author Posted February 2, 2010 Well she texted me today again to see if i wanted to get lunch. I told her to F off and she got all upset. I caved and told her my feelings about how she is always ignoring me and she is just pretending she wasn't and that she was busy. Again I'm so lonely I'm going to believe her. I asked her to hang out quite a few times and she would just ignore it, now she is pretending I never asked her to hang out! She also claims I never ask her how she's doing and just send her random texts. She is playing some kind of psychological game with me I think (she is a psychology major)
Crazy Magnet Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Why do people think psych majors play mind games??? They do not have "How to screw someone's head up 101" or "How to manipulate people 204" Just b/c someone studies psychology does not mean they suddenly know how to control other people's emotions or actions. She's playing head games b/c she's nuts, not b/c she's a psych major! Try deleting her phone number and blocking her from every means of communication you have.
OpenGL Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 cognac, you need to grow some balls. You're such a sap man. Tons of good advice have been given to you in this thread but you are too chicken sht to act on it.
torranceshipman Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 She was planning to leave her boyfriend before she came into some hard times I won't get into. I've told her to tell me if she wanted me to go away, I would go away if that's what she wanted, and asked her to be honest as a favor and as a decent human being, if she is planning to use me after that then she is just exceptionally evil. I sincerely think she's just really confused and want the balance to tip in my favor. ( i get the feeling it's not) My goal is to try to grease the wheels to get her back into that old feeling about me, make her forget about her other problems and get back into me like when I knew her before all the bad stuff started happening to her. She has a boyfriend. She isn't interested. There is NOTHING that you can do - 'game' only works if she is really attracted in the 1st place, and she is blatantly not interested. She was playing you and pretending she was kinda interested, but had to keep you at arms length for some reason or another. All lines. No 'pick up' artist tips will help. She will let you try for a loooong time though, cause you are a great, entertaining ego boost for her. Don't demean yourself. Forget her. Really sorry though, you sound down. Stop putting yourself in the firing line with a girl who isnt worth it and stop trying for validation from girls like this...you need to try and spend time with more positive people.
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