LL23 Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 OK...I have been in a long distance relationship with my bf for a year now. We met at the airport and hit it off really great! He was previously married and has two duaghters who are great. He is honeslty one of the nicest guys I know and in just one ear we have done so much. When we are good we are really good but when we fight we are both hotheaded. My lease is ending in 3 months and I planned on moving down there to be with him and the kids. It seems that whenever we get into a fight he shuts down and he can go hours to days with NC. It drives me insane!!!! One time he did it for two weeks and out of insanity I ended up flying down there and everything turned out ok. He has a very demanding job and a lot of responsibilities..He is 11 years older..I am 27 and I only have a 9-5 job and i come home lonely and bored...Lately I have had alot of insecurities and jealousies coming out from past relationships and I have been taking them out on him and I guess taking for granted that he cares so much. A week and a half ago he flew up to see me after an international flight with his job. We ended up fighting and when he went home he sheddded a couple tears and said mayb we werent compatible...he gave me a kiss on the lips and got out of the car. Ofcourse I broke down crying and later that night me and him talked. We had a long conversation on how he was in a miserable marrige and the last thing he wants is me living with him and us arguing. I asked him if he was going to give us another chance. I told him I would go to counseling for my issues. He said he didnt know. We talked the next morning and he text me a couple times for the next couple days...then since last friday i have not heard anything from him. Saturday was our one year ann and he didnt call...i started texting him and asking him to tell me if we were over with so i could move on and he said nothing. He left on a international trip on monday and comes back sat...his kids are still calling me like normal and i am really confused...dont know what to do or think???? any ideas????? Im miserable
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