dmb05 Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 Well I think I've officially accepted it's over now. My gf and I broke up last Saturday. There was hardly any talk over it, she just did it out of nowhere. I did NC for a while, but her friends and parents told me I should talk to her because we both really liked each other, so I emailed her asking if she'd like to start things over. Got no response. Around 7 pm yesterday she texted me saying Happy Birthday!!! Let me know when u get home so I can give you your gifts! I asked her if she was coming over and she said no, we'd meet in town. I asked her if we could talk about things, and she said she guessed, but not for long. When I got there, she gave me my birthday present, then gave me my class ring that she had took back and said she didn't want a relationship. She needed to be single longer and stay focused on college. That was about the 10th reason she'd given me on why we needed to break up. So, I'm moving on and using total NC now. I don't have time for these kinds of games anymore from girls.
Author dmb05 Posted January 28, 2010 Author Posted January 28, 2010 Oh, and after she gave me my gifts I told her thanks. When she gave me my ring and told me we were over, I just got in my truck and left. 2 minutes later I got a text saying "gah, you sure were a jerk tonight."
WantToFixIt Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 I only know that sucks. Everything else would just be a guess. I guess I also I know that she sucks. Your birthday is not the time to be a beeotch
Silver_star Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 Good for you for driving away...i hope she chokes on the big dust cloud from your peel out. aha jk. But seriously...if shes threw, shes threw and you deserve more. She shouldnt have done that on your birthday, she could have just as easily waited until the next day. You will find that in a month or so of NC (absolute NC) that you will be much happier. It will be hard at first and you will think about trying to beg for her back, but dont. Do anything but that. After that time is up you might not be over her yet but you will realize that there is so much more out there, and its TONS better.
MySweetie'sGone Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 She's def the jerk in this situation. You lures you with promises of gifts and then tells you it's over and gives you back your ring?? She had it planned from the start. NC is the way to go...give her time to think about what she did. I hope that you havent talked at her at all since you got into your truck without a word and rode off. That would send a pretty strong message that she CLEARLY needs to hear.
skydiveaddict Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 she did that stuff to you on your birthday because she is a cruel person. you're much much better off without her
sean1970 Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 I know it hurts man but bravo... That 'jerk' did himself right and saved some dignity.
Author dmb05 Posted February 2, 2010 Author Posted February 2, 2010 Well I think she's either trying to get under my skin or trying to get me to say something to her. I log in to facebook this morning and see her status as: _____ is so glad Taylor Swift won album of the year! She so deserves it! Too bad DMB! haha I absolutely love the dave matthews band and we were supposed to watch the grammy's together. Now I'm the only person she knows that listens to them, and she had never even heard of them until I dated her. Why would she post this? I've ignored it and just think it's stupid really.
skydiveaddict Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 (edited) dude you've already broken a nc rule: quit looking at her fb page. it's only gonna cause you misery Edited February 3, 2010 by skydiveaddict
kwyser Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 It sounds like you should just move on. She can't expect you two to break up, give you a present on your birthday, act like nothing happened, and expect everything to be peachy. You are not in the wrong here. I think you have the right idea moving on and having NC for a while.
Author dmb05 Posted February 3, 2010 Author Posted February 3, 2010 Well I logged on last night to find out she deleted me from her facebook. In a way, I'm glad now. I see how childish she acts and how we weren't good for each other now that we're apart. I ended up talkin to an old ex last night and it's like we never quit talking. We're not getting back together or anything, but it sure helped me move on from my most recent ex quick.
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