kiran Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 I post on a political message board and my ex knows my screen name. The day after he broke up with me, I posted a short message that he had left me for someone else and I was in pain. A lot of people replied and it helped me a good bit; most of my replies to them said I wouldn't take him back. I just got an email from him - he read it. He HAD to have searched for the post though, because it was buried on. He wrote "Nice Post" and then that he wasn't feeling very well and instead of coming by to get some of his things, is just going to go home. I don't care that he read it (it's probably a good thing) - but WHY was he searching that forum for my posts? Does he miss me?
HeavenOrHell Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 My ex posts on my facebook page but it doesn't mean he wants me back, he misses me but doesn't want me back. I don't know your story, so can't say what's happening there.
Author kiran Posted January 29, 2010 Author Posted January 29, 2010 My ex posts on my facebook page but it doesn't mean he wants me back, he misses me but doesn't want me back. I don't know your story, so can't say what's happening there. We broke up a week ago - he left me for a younger woman he met in a bar. The post he read was my venting and within the replies, I said I'd never take him back. So he came by to get some stuff, looked horrible and wouldn't make eye contact with me. Part of me wants him to miss me and hurt terribly and beg me to take me back so I can say no (or will I?). I don't even know what I want at this point. All I know is I looked fantastic today and didn't show any emotion when he was here. Smiled at him and opened the door so he could carry out his stuff. Anyway, all the emotions are back now (even thought I did a great job hiding it) and I've got to get back to no contact. At least until I have to meet him next week to go over what we're going to do about the house. Sick and tired of this.
0hpenelope Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 (edited) I post on a political message board and my ex knows my screen name. The day after he broke up with me, I posted a short message that he had left me for someone else and I was in pain. A lot of people replied and it helped me a good bit; most of my replies to them said I wouldn't take him back. I just got an email from him - he read it. He HAD to have searched for the post though, because it was buried on. He wrote "Nice Post" and then that he wasn't feeling very well and instead of coming by to get some of his things, is just going to go home. I don't care that he read it (it's probably a good thing) - but WHY was he searching that forum for my posts? Does he miss me? Good luck. What you posted on there is none of his business, unless you made claims that are libelous and outright slanderous. But if you weren't lying about anything, he shouldn't care what anonymous internet users think of him. You're the one who's hurt and you're looking for ways to feel better that won't harm you. That's a good thing in my opinion. Or maybe he cares because he knows what he's done is wrong? Perhaps he just looked up your posts because he was curious to see if you've made any mention about the situation and DING! He found something. And now he's all hurt. Too bad for him. On the other hand, he should feel relieved that you just vented. You're entitled to vent. You could've been THAT ex. You know, the ex that's bitter enough to plan an elaborate revenge vs. using that time to engage in activities to empower yourself. But you didn't turn out to be that kind of ex, so he should be thankful. Edited January 29, 2010 by 0hpenelope
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