Hi, I've been cheated on by every gf I have ever had

[betamanlet]

True about 90% of the time. Thats why i wont even bother trying to get beautiful women becasue why would they want an average guy like me when they can have some guy with muscle and money?

 

Well, you COULD get her for the moment.. But she'll shop around for better. If you can handle that, then that's something you can do..

 

Think about it for a moment, you could sya that about bald guys. Why date a bald guy if you can date a guy who has hair? I see bald guys with women all the time... A lot of my friends from high school are bald or were balding even before they got married, and are currently married.

[betamanlet]

Sit down and make a list of things about your parents 10 things positive...10 things negative. Recognize the similarity in the traits they have and your GF's have. We sometimes pick people by what we know. My dad was a cheater but had a great sense of humor. My mom is strong but controlling..guess what?!? Every guy I've ever dated had all of those qualities and they ALL cheated, you have to break the cycle.

 

 

I'll do that when i get home, but in all honesty, the only commonality that these women had was that they were willing to date me.

[Brady_to_Moss]

Well, you COULD get her for the moment.. But she'll shop around for better. If you can handle that, then that's something you can do..

 

Think about it for a moment, you could sya that about bald guys. Why date a bald guy if you can date a guy who has hair? I see bald guys with women all the time... A lot of my friends from high school are bald or were balding even before they got married, and are currently married.

 

 

I would rather be bald than to have no money and skinny

 

 

I guess my point was that if a beautiful girl...like a 10 showed intrest in me and made the first move...if we got together..i would never trust her becasue 75% of guys she would see on a daily basis would be better than me.

[pyroguy]

[QUOTE=betamanlet;2626243]Well, you COULD get her for the moment.. But she'll shop around for better. If you can handle that, then that's something you can do..

 

Think about it for a moment, you could sya that about bald guys. Why date a bald guy if you can date a guy who has hair? I see bald guys with women all the time... A lot of my friends from high school are bald or were balding even before they got married, and are currently married.

 

Well, actually what I see is women who marry who they think is good for them. Afterall, they know they can't marry for just the good looks and body. Accept, nowadays, they then become restless for the excitement of the hot guy.. you know the whole cougar thing etc., and no, I think that women cheat many times today just because they can. They see that they can get that hot guy-at least for sex anyway. It's not for all the reasons they create, such as lack of emotional intimacy or attention. Sure, sometimes it is, but the former happens more that people will admit.

 

I think women are guilty of something similar to the "madonna-whore" syndrome that usually gets charged to men. They marry the safe guy, the good guy, the good father and maybe provider, but they don't seem to be that sexually into him or find a reason to be. Look at all these posts on here from women who are not attracted to their husbands, or husbands who have wives that are ambivalent to them and their needs. I would be rich if I had a nickel for everytime I see this.

 

In modern times, women will then cheat for the more exciting man. I've also seen so many women applaude the sex they have with their AP, do things sexually with him that she doesn't with the husband. Why?

 

Then, they continue to do the same things over and over. It's like they don't want a really good looking, sexual husband. It will threaten them. I swear this is true. I'm seeing it right here on this board and in personal settings. It's sad, and I guess it's the equivalent of the madonna-whore syndrome.

 

In the end though, there is nothing you can do about it, is there? you can only be the best you. Live for you, not women. Yes, they will pick the best looking, most successful, tallest guy, or otherwise desire that guy to the hilt. that's life, but aren't men guilty of this too?

[pyroguy]

True about 90% of the time. Thats why i wont even bother trying to get beautiful women becasue why would they want an average guy like me when they can have some guy with muscle and money?

 

 

That's probably true, but look at it this way. If you pursue the beautiful woman, are you not shunning the average female who may be a great girl for you? is that average girl entitled to feel as you do now?

 

Yes, it's true, but it's always been this way. I don't know why all these threads about it are so prevalent. Even in the old days grandma wanted Clark Gable and Cary Grant more than the average man. Yes, I know with modern women it's amplified 10 times, but again, what are you going to do?

 

That's life, and life isn't fair. The younger generation better learn that and lose the entitlement syndrome.

[betamanlet]

I would never want a "hot" woman, yet average women that have dated me seem to have a problem with loyalty.... You'd think "average" women get hit on even more and have even more options available to them since they are less intimidating.

[hoping2heal]

Apparently because I'm male, it must be my fault. So what did I do? I can only guess that I didn't provide enough excitement.

 

No, it isn't your fault because you are male. That's just plain ridiculous. If every girl you've dated is a cheater? You don't know how to pick em' that's the problem.

[betamanlet]

No, it isn't your fault because you are male. That's just plain ridiculous. If every girl you've dated is a cheater? You don't know how to pick em' that's the problem.

I've pretty much dated every chick who has ever shown any interest in me, and that's not many.

[hoping2heal]

I've pretty much dated every chick who has ever shown any interest in me, and that's not many.

 

Yes exactly. You just date anyone who goes for you obviously ignoring quality and charachter.

[betamanlet]

Yes exactly. You just date anyone who goes for you obviously ignoring quality and charachter.

 

 

Maybe 7 women in my entire life have shown any interest in me, I have dated 3 of them.

[Buttnutter100]

Stop looking for a "girlfriend" and just go out there and sex.

[betamanlet]

Stop looking for a "girlfriend" and just go out there and sex.

I have absolutely no game.

[Buttnutter100]

Maybe 7 women in my entire life have shown any interest in me, I have dated 3 of them.

 

 

Wait a second. You're 35 and only had 7 women ever express any interest in you?

 

That's impossible dude. Are you hideously ugly or something? Even if so, you would still get hit on by the hideously ugly women, right? There are plenty of them out there. Believe me I know. Or, what about fat chicks, you know like that girl Alphamale was thinking of dating?

 

I suspect you have been looking for women WAY out of your league. Drop your sights way down low, and troll for the fugly girls. Or, go for some older women. Some of those gals in their 40's - 50's can be pretty darn hot.

 

Since you actually have gone out a few times you don't entirely lack social skills.

 

The solution to your problem is to focus your attentions on the more neglected parts of the female population: fat, older, homely. If you can find someone who is fat, old, AND homely then you have hit the trifecta and you should score easily.

 

Seriously, if you don't want to look at her face then put the pillow over her head, or flip her over and do it doggy style. Or just close your eyes and hum to yourself until it's over.

 

One good thing about older chicks is some of them give excellent bjs, because they simply take their dentures out and then it's "smooth sailing" after that.

 

Go onto a dating website, right now, and only look for women in their 40's and 50's who want to have sex, and say you don't care what they look like. You will have more than you can handle soon enough mi amigo.

 

Follow my advice closely and to the letter, it will work wonders.

 

Trust me.

[Buttnutter100]

Girls with unsightly hairy moles and warts on their faces are also prime targets for your dating efforts.

 

I mean one thing I don't understand is the popularity that Cindy Crawford had with that giant wart on her face. I guess it's a turn on for some people.

 

You know come to think of it every time I watch the Wizard of Oz I pop a raging boner when the Wicked Witch of the West comes on. I think I've finally figured out why.

[Brady_to_Moss]

Then, they continue to do the same things over and over. It's like they don't want a really good looking, sexual husband. It will threaten them. I swear this is true. I'm seeing it right here on this board and in personal settings. It's sad, and I guess it's the equivalent of the madonna-whore syndrome.

 

 

 

^^^^^ THIS

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Apparently because I'm male, it must be my fault. So what did I do? I can only guess that I didn't provide enough excitement.

 

where to you pick em up? (not saying location is a true indicator). If you pick em up in bars, and strip clubs, than maybe that's why. Quality women with intelligence "usually" don't go to these type of "fun zones" for quality intellectual relationships.