cashew Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 Why would a woman flirt with a man who's girlfriend is literally inches away? My bf did not welcome any of her advances. She stood very close to him, repeatedly touched his arm, stared into his eyes, and hung onto his every word. What should I have done? I just stared at her in disbelief. What should I have said? I didn't say anything.
xpaperxcutx Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 You needn't have done anything. Your boyfriend should have straight up told her he had a girlfriend.
Author cashew Posted January 28, 2010 Author Posted January 28, 2010 You needn't have done anything. Your boyfriend should have straight up told her he had a girlfriend. She's aware of this fact! He had to move away from her.
xpaperxcutx Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 She's aware of this fact! He had to move away from her. Wow what a b-.
Woggle Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 For some women another woman makes him even more enticing.
TheLoneSock Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 My bf did not welcome any of her advances. This is the only part that matters. If you're feeling territorial, you could always call him by his pet name in front of her But really, you don't have to do anything. Sounds like your BF handled it just fine.
SadandConfusedWA Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 Pffft. Only amateurs flirt in front of the girlfriend...
counterman Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 You should have gone all protective and whatnot! "HEY! GET YOUR FILTHY HANDS OFF HIM! SLUT!" LOL. Seriously, your boyfriend did the right thing. Some girls like to do that because it shows they have "game"; not my words, someone elses.
Author cashew Posted January 28, 2010 Author Posted January 28, 2010 (edited) You shoulda whooped that bitch's ass. The b**** acted like the Bunny Boiler! It was very hard for me not to react like this man's gf! Edited January 28, 2010 by cashew
Author cashew Posted January 28, 2010 Author Posted January 28, 2010 Pffft. Only amateurs flirt in front of the girlfriend... Professionals are more subtle? Why, exactly, do you know this?
calizaggy Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 This is actually common..Just ignore the other woman, or appear to be a little jealous.. But if you confront her it does not look very lady like to your boyfriend.
betamanlet Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 Why would a woman flirt with a man who's girlfriend is literally inches away? My bf did not welcome any of her advances. She stood very close to him, repeatedly touched his arm, stared into his eyes, and hung onto his every word. What should I have done? I just stared at her in disbelief. What should I have said? I didn't say anything. Women desire men that other women desire. It's a seal of approval, it adds drama. you're much more desirable to women if you have a girlfriend or wife. Women are ultra competitive also..
Author cashew Posted January 28, 2010 Author Posted January 28, 2010 This is actually common..Just ignore the other woman, or appear to be a little jealous.. But if you confront her it does not look very lady like to your boyfriend. I didn't notice until my cousin told me. I saw my cousin's facial expression change and then she said, "Oh no she didn't!" I didn't confront the woman. I continued to ignore her. I'm not jealous! I'm upset because she thinks she has a chance. She invited him to go hiking with her! Why does she think he wants to spend time with her alone? Why does she think he wants to get to know her?
calizaggy Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 I think since women rarely fight, her actions have no recourse. So she is just doing it to piss you off, as she most likely hates other women. It happened to me recently at a bar with my gf.. A girl came over, asked my name, then was calling me from across the restaurant..Right next to my gf.
betamanlet Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 Women don't abide by the code of conduct that men do. If a guywalks in with his girlfriend, you don't go hitting on his girlfriend.. However, if the girlfriends starts flirting, then that's another story.. But that girl is bad news anyways.
O'Malley Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 Your boyfriend has to handle it, whether he's approached when you are around or when he's by himself. Some guys tend do this more passively (ignoring her/walking away, because they don't know how to react) or simply making it clear that they are with someone else. Acting angry or publicly possessive of him will backfire, as she will perceive that she's pushing your buttons. If his actions have always been trustworthy and nonreciprocating of outside validation, there's nothing to worry about.
jenifer1972 Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 Shei is a big game hunter and taken men are her prey of choice. The only protection is to have a man who does not fall for her lures and traps and it sounds like your man is not impressed fortunately.
meerkat stew Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 You are seriously surprised to see this kind of thing? It's quite common, get used to it if you and your BF go out frequently. Good on you for not making a scene and taking it in stride.
Johnny M Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 Why would a woman flirt with a man who's girlfriend is literally inches away? My bf did not welcome any of her advances. She stood very close to him, repeatedly touched his arm, stared into his eyes, and hung onto his every word. What should I have done? I just stared at her in disbelief. What should I have said? I didn't say anything. Happens to me all the time. Last weekend, I went clubbing with this girl, and while I'm standing there dancing with her, another girl walks by, grabs my ass and stares at me expectantly. Talk about an awkward moment.
Johnny M Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 Women don't abide by the code of conduct that men do. If a guywalks in with his girlfriend, you don't go hitting on his girlfriend.. However, if the girlfriends starts flirting, then that's another story.. But that girl is bad news anyways. Men do the exact same thing. They start hitting on your girl as soon as you leave her sight or sometimes even right in front of you. How do you think most bar fights start?
betamanlet Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 Men do the exact same thing. They start hitting on your girl as soon as you leave her sight or sometimes even right in front of you. How do you think most bar fights start? Barfights start when the gf starts flirting and the boyfriend gets jealous.
Johnny M Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 Barfights start when the gf starts flirting and the boyfriend gets jealous. Well, that too. But often it's the other guy who starts flirting.
DiscoChick Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 Why would a woman flirt with a man who's girlfriend is literally inches away? My bf did not welcome any of her advances. She stood very close to him, repeatedly touched his arm, stared into his eyes, and hung onto his every word. What should I have done? I just stared at her in disbelief. What should I have said? I didn't say anything. I really dislike women that try and take other womenfolk's men. It's disgusting and makes guys think all women are this way. Personally, I would have told her to take her to take a hike. Your boyfriend could have been a little more uhh...what word am I looking for? Can't think of it right now, but he could have told the chick to stop and pointed out that he was with you. You should slap him on the back of the head for that one.
Author cashew Posted January 30, 2010 Author Posted January 30, 2010 It happened to me recently at a bar with my gf.. A girl came over, asked my name, then was calling me from across the restaurant..Right next to my gf. What's wrong with these women? They're looking for a fight?
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