XKatieX Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 I honestly can't just believe what happened in the short 20 mins that took place. We got into a fight over something, and I didn't want to fight so I ignored him, and I didn't talk to him for a bit. Next thing I know he tells me he just called someone and asked them out and they said yes. When I asked him about it, he said it was right after I ignored him and that I just pushed him too far. I just can't believe i never knew about this, all this time he had someone elses number, yet he never told me? He has told me in the past that he had someone else, when he really didn't..he said it was just to get me to show I care. But he would always tell me after that he didn't have anyone, and he would keep talking to me. At first I thought, well maybe he's just trying to hurt me..but now I'm thinking he was just waiting for the final straw because now hes not talking to me at all.
Eeyore79 Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 Sorry but he sounds like a right idiot. It's incredibly childish to go around spouting nonsense in order to make your girlfriend jealous, and to ask someone else on a date just because you had an argument is beyond a joke... if he wanted to end your relationship he should have discussed it with you and completely ended it before he even thought about dating someone else. But my guess is that he's probably just trying to make you jealous again. If I were you I'd call his bluff and tell him to date this other girl because you're sick of his games and you don't want him any more... then go and find yourself a decent man who won't pull childish stunts like this.
DenverBachelor Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 He's a kid. Forget about him and go find a real man.
curiousnycgirl Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 He's a kid. Forget about him and go find a real man. I agree with this 100%. Grown ups don't play these silly games. You should thank your lucky stars that this happened and move on. I know that's a lot easier said than done, but you can do it and will be better off in the long run.
DustySaltus Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 I'm sorry but he's a real weak man. I remember when my ex fiance and I broke up after about two years she turned around A WEEK later and said she found a new guy that was so much better than I ever was. Well, it turns out that this guy never existed but that isn't the point. He's trying to control you by representing to you that he has other options. If you say he's done this before and you're tired of it...drop off the face of the earth for a while. Don't contact him in anyway and I GUARANTEE he will come back with his tail between his legs. I would love to play poker with this guy because he seems like a terrible bluffer. I'm sorry you have to deal with little kid games like this. NO MAN who respects you and wants to be with you would EVER say something like this. And to be honest a REAL MAN who didn't want to be with you anymore would just be open and honest about everything. This guy sounds like he likes drama. I do too, but only at the movies or on my big screen TV....for some reason when it happens in real life, it never leaves me with a smile on my face saying, "Oh, I can use some more of this"! I know it's hard but I would leave a guy like this behind. He's not built for the long haul.
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