gtrguy Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 What's the rule of thumb to call and/or txt after a first date? Had a long 3hr date that ended with a quick kiss goodbye.. How long do I wait to contact and make plans for another date? Typically the girl comes after me but hasn't happened with this one yet. Do I wait and let her come to me? We talked about getting together again nxt week. Thx.
Angel1111 Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 No, it's very bad policy to expect a girl to chase after you. If a guy waited around for me to do this, he'd be waiting a really long time. I would take his lack of follow-up as being disinterested, or I would perceive him as weak if I knew he was waiting to hear from me. You need to be the one to set up the next date. If you had a nice time with her, there's nothing wrong with calling the next day or the day after that. But if you plan to get together again with her next week, you need to ask about a week in advance to make sure she doesn't have other plans. This is just courtesy.
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