Maddi_is_broken Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 So, my girlfriend of two and a half months (the longest relationship I've had with someone I've actually cared about) recently broke up with me. She's a very complex and confusing girl and she doesn't always do things that make sence. She told me that she doesn't feel right dragging me through sh*t so we can be together and that she doesn't deserve someone as "nice" as me. I really like her; in the simplist terms I was begining to love her. And, I want her in my life even if we aren't together... But, is it okay to be her friend when I feel so attracted to her??? I never held her hand, kissed her, hugged her, called her at three in the morning because I couldn't sleep. None of that stuff, but I still liked her with everything I had. So, us being friends would be the same as us being together... right? I just really need help on weather or not I can still be her friend...
counterman Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 It is not a good idea to be friends with her if you still have feelings for her. Your feelings for her will grow and grow but nothing will come of it in the end, so you might end up hurt. She does seem confused and it is not right for you to be so close to her if she can change her mind about you like that. She might take you back and then break up with you again. So, don't be friends with her if you still have feelings for her. Just move on and talk to other girls and live your life as you would without her.
USMCHokie Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 So, my girlfriend of two and a half months (the longest relationship I've had with someone I've actually cared about) recently broke up with me. She's a very complex and confusing girl and she doesn't always do things that make sence. All women are like this... She told me that she doesn't feel right dragging me through sh*t so we can be together and that she doesn't deserve someone as "nice" as me. Woman-speak translated: I don't want to date you anymore. (OR) I found some other guy who I like better. But, is it okay to be her friend when I feel so attracted to her??? I never held her hand, kissed her, hugged her, called her at three in the morning because I couldn't sleep. None of that stuff, but I still liked her with everything I had. So, us being friends would be the same as us being together... right? I just really need help on weather or not I can still be her friend... You sound like you're really young...two and a half months isn't anything...and from the sound of it, I don't know if I'd call what you had with her a relationship. I wouldn't be friends with her...unless you don't have a problem talking to her about the new guy she likes and wants to date... And for god sake's no man, being her friend isn't like being together... There will be others...
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