Caleb Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 So a lot of you know my story already. But after the lunch date we had, there was no contact for three days. Well last night while she was at work, she text me saying "I know it's none of my business but if you ever start liking someone else or crushing on them, would you please tell me so I'm not stupid enough to try and get you back when you're happy with someone else." I pretty much told her it was none of her business, but no I was not with anyone else, but that I was moving on. She was like well I was just wondering because I still have feelings for you and I'm just so confused. I'm still leaving it with no contact until she tries to contact me again. What is up with her? And am I doing the right thing?
ella23 Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Yes, you're doing the right thing. She sounds like she wants to date new guys and have new experiences, but keep you on the side waiting for her just in case things don't work out. Don't bother contacting her again and continue NC. Even if you still have hopes of getting back with her, don't try to unless she's the one who comes to you 100% sure that she wants to be with you and admits that she made a mistake by dumping you.
sunrae Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 "I know it's none of my business but if you ever start liking someone else or crushing on them, would you please tell me so I'm not stupid enough to try and get you back when you're happy with someone else." . What is up with her? And am I doing the right thing? Ok. Thats get the selfish quote of the day.. WOW.... Even is she contacts you, dont reply.. She just wants you as her fall back boy right now... You deserve so much better than this.. keep up NC, even if she calls, Ignore her..
Author Caleb Posted January 27, 2010 Author Posted January 27, 2010 Ok good.. I figured doing the no contact would be the right thing to do. And yeah I'm not going to wait around to be her "fall back boy."
sunrae Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Yeah, us South Carolina people need to stick together... It sucks now, but you can do it Caleb... Keep up the good work for yourself..Time for you to be selfish for a bit.
ella23 Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Yep, she needs to grow up. She does what she wants and gets jealous when you ty to move on. Goodness.
Author Caleb Posted January 27, 2010 Author Posted January 27, 2010 Haha yeah we do sunrae! And yeah I'm going to start being a little selfish. It's not my nature, but I have no choice. It's very unfair for her to say she's moved on and wants me to do the same, yet when I do that, she comes crawling being jealous. Ugh I just do no understand girls!
ella23 Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Haha yeah we do sunrae! And yeah I'm going to start being a little selfish. It's not my nature, but I have no choice. It's very unfair for her to say she's moved on and wants me to do the same, yet when I do that, she comes crawling being jealous. Ugh I just do no understand girls! Every girl is not like your ex. I'm sure you'll meet someone nicer and will find love again.
sunrae Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 I just do no understand girls! Sigh, and I dont understand boys Caleb... So I guess we are both in the same boat.... There are plenty of sweet good girls out there, that will enjoy your company, so ask one of them out on a date or two... Dont mess with wishy washy girl anymore.
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