USMCHokie Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 So this has been something that's been on my mind for a little while now...but what makes military men seem to appealing to many (not all) women...? This was brought up in a few other LS threads a while back about how women just go ga-ga over military men (especially them Marines... ), and how it's pretty much a free ticket to find a woman...yet I don't really see it or understand it... Being around them all the time, I don't quite get it...most are just your normal folks that are doing a job...yes, you have that service to country aspect which I understand and respect...but a lot of them are very average and below average people...and you certainly have your share of completely weird psycho ones... Of course there's the aspect of security and that proverbial meal ticket, but that's not really the point of my question... And even with all the stigmas surrounding military men...prone to cheat, domestic abuse, alcoholism, etc, and the list goes on...let's face it, stereotypes wouldn't exist unless they were somewhat true...a lot of military guys are just douchebags...I see it every day in my job...and I just scratch my head and wonder, 'what the hell did she see in him...?' Also, military spouses know full well how tough it can be when your servicemember is deployed or otherwise away from home and the family...it certainly takes a special person to be a military dependent... Yet after all this, what makes military men so appealing?
jw90063 Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 I've dated a few military men, and I hate to stereotype, but I suggest staying clear of them. Not all, but most of them are dishonest, cocky as all get out, and well just basically a jerk kind of guy. I admit though, I seem to be awfully attracted to those kinds of guys but I realize I need to stay clear for my own good. I do love the uniforms, hair cuts, and many of them are very flirtatious and charming. This is just my opinion though.
Johnny M Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Hollywood, plus general stereotypes about military men (i.e. tough, brave, etc.)
jw90063 Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 On the other hand, lots of them are very down to earth, easy to talk with, can be fun to hang out with, so its not all bad. I just can't deal with the over cockiness crap, and dishonesty(not all are like this, but in my experience alone they have been).
Stung Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 <shrug> I never felt it, USMC, sorry. I did have a brief fascination in my very early 20s for firemen, however. I think a lot of women are drawn to the 'hero' meme, forgetting that a lot of the 'hero' type guys ARE prone to cheating and extreme behavior. Once I figured that out though I kept moving and never looked back. Not to say I wouldn't still have given a fireman a chance , but he might have had to prove his sensitive side a little more earnestly than another guy would.
bayouboi Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 My theory is that they provide a paycheck and sperm, yet if they're deployed, the women don't have to put up with them.
DiscoChick Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 the buzz cuts and the uniforms Those cuts are horrible. I've never been into military men. The only thing they could offer me is conversation about their travels. Other than that, I'm not interested. I don't care why he fought in this war or that one or why him being in the military is important (yes, I have listened to a ten minute long rant about this). Oh, and the finisher "I don't like the idea of shooting women and kids, but I'm fighting for freedom." If I had a dollar for how many times that's been said to me... they seem to not know how to hold a normal conversation.
DustySaltus Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 It's because of this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hQtGZKdW0Xc
laRubiaBonita Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 It's because of this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hQtGZKdW0Xc ^^^ that would deter me
Author USMCHokie Posted January 27, 2010 Author Posted January 27, 2010 My theory is that they provide a paycheck and sperm, yet if they're deployed, the women don't have to put up with them. It's funny you should say this...I have a friend who told me that his marriage was 100x better when he was deployed...he is now getting divorced... It's because of this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hQtGZKdW0Xc This pure awesomeness has been duly noted...
DustySaltus Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 ^^^ that would deter me Maybe now, but in 87' you would swoon
alphamale Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Yet after all this, what makes military men so appealing? they tend to be on the masculine side, chicks like that
Stung Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Maybe now, but in 87' you would swoon Well, in 87 I was twelve years old. So you might be right, but my tastes then have little bearing on my tastes in my 20s and 30s.
curiousnycgirl Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 My theory is that they provide a paycheck and sperm, yet if they're deployed, the women don't have to put up with them. It is appalling how little our military is paid. My ex's son is a Marine and his wife actually qualifies for WIC. In fact they have a WIC office on base! These guys are going off to very unfriendly places in defense of OUR country, following the commands of OUR president and their children are on public assistance. As far as why women go for them - they are buff, they are brave and they are CUTE!
ella23 Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 My theory is that they provide a paycheck and sperm, yet if they're deployed, the women don't have to put up with them. That must be it. And they're hot. lol
threebyfate Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Most military men, due to training, have a body confidence about them, which is reflected in their good posture, head held high, in good shape. While this doesn't guarantee they're confident internally, their body language expresses that they are. Also, uniforms are intended to flatter the male body. And they do!
Crazy Magnet Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 They are confident and not afraid to take charge. In general, they are ASSHATES. In all caps. I have a couple very close friends (women) and close friends (men) in the military, and the stories they tell on deployments! so and so's husband was sleeping with this chick, who's husband was also deployed, but to another place....blah blah blah. I dated one briefly. Never again. No interest for me. He was really confident, but not so intelligent.
flc Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Can't comment on dating but my best hires have come out of the military, much better focus and discipline than your standard college grad. I assume that translates into confidence.
DiscoChick Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Also, uniforms are intended to flatter the male body. And they do! I never understood the uniform thing. The only guy I ever felt attracted to that was wearing a uniform was some guy dressed as Data (Star Trek:NG) for Halloween. Obviously, I wasn't even attracted to him but the idea that he was Data.
threebyfate Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 I never understood the uniform thing. The only guy I ever felt attracted to that was wearing a uniform was some guy dressed as Data (Star Trek:NG) for Halloween. Obviously, I wasn't even attracted to him but the idea that he was Data. You're adorable!
SOLACEMENT Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 So this has been something that's been on my mind for a little while now...but what makes military men seem to appealing to many (not all) women...? This was brought up in a few other LS threads a while back about how women just go ga-ga over military men (especially them Marines... ), and how it's pretty much a free ticket to find a woman...yet I don't really see it or understand it... Being around them all the time, I don't quite get it...most are just your normal folks that are doing a job...yes, you have that service to country aspect which I understand and respect...but a lot of them are very average and below average people...and you certainly have your share of completely weird psycho ones... Of course there's the aspect of security and that proverbial meal ticket, but that's not really the point of my question... And even with all the stigmas surrounding military men...prone to cheat, domestic abuse, alcoholism, etc, and the list goes on...let's face it, stereotypes wouldn't exist unless they were somewhat true...a lot of military guys are just douchebags...I see it every day in my job...and I just scratch my head and wonder, 'what the hell did she see in him...?' Also, military spouses know full well how tough it can be when your servicemember is deployed or otherwise away from home and the family...it certainly takes a special person to be a military dependent... Yet after all this, what makes military men so appealing? The benefits! Only kidding ..I can't answer this since I am anti-force or anti army..or wtf ever lol
OceanTropic Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 First of all, they are all physically fit. Second, men are sexy in uniform, especially military uniform. It represents power and dominance, and thats very attractive, it's very masculine.
quankanne Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 generally speaking? My guess is the uniform and they way they carry themselves. Lots of good manners, as evidenced when my nephew brought a couple of guys from his squad home for Thanksgiving. VERY polite, which goes a long way with someone raised with manners drilled into her personally speaking? There's a long family tradition of servicemen and -women, and basically I think people gravitate to what they know. While I wasn't a traditional AF brat, I did grow up with things like base access and a daddy who thought he could pull rank on the kids the way he did with his underlings :D:D and again, there's the way they carry themselves and the whole manners/respect thing.
Green Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 I really think saying you are a Lawyer, Doctor, Architect ect. turns women on more. My friend who got shot in Afganistan doesn't seem to be doing great in the ladies department. My family who was good with women before the military still is good now that he is a veteran... so i think it doesn't really matter, just as many women will be turned off as on. I mean it sounds better then I work at walmart or I clean floors at the highschool
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