Itzo Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 Literally the only reason I watch tv (History channel, Discovery channel, CNN, the local news, the occasional sit-com), follow politics, and read bestsellers is to always have things to talk about with people. Well, plus I actually enjoy some of those things. Same goes for having a hobby(ies) that you are informed about and involved in, and enjoy. Ditto for paying attention to what's going on around; the easiest way to make a connection with someone else is to comment on a situation that is happening right in front of both of you. Hmmm ... Seems like you focus on external and tangible things. When people talk about THEM they find this common observations, but this is not a connection. Connection comes from deeper and internal things, like experiences, feelings & ideas. I do not watch TV very often, it is full of crap to me. I cannot be informed on TV very often, because the information I am gettin' there is irrelevant to my development & personal needs. Hell yea, perhaps TV is good for drama, but this is not what I am looking for.
Author gsly Posted February 16, 2010 Author Posted February 16, 2010 so here's a little update..over the past two weeks i've went out to the bars and i felt more confident hangin out with my friends and then going up to a girl and starting a conversation..I keep telling myself that what the worst possible thing that could happen..she could say no..then i just move on if that happens... the funniest thing happend though the other night, i was looking for one of my friends on myspace and this girl who after looking at her profile was the perfect type so i had the confidence to msg her and after a few days of talking back and fourth we found each other on facebook and we spent most of this afternoon talkin back and fourth and as she was leaving she gave me her phone number and told me to txt her.. now the question is do i wait to txt her back or do i get back to her right away?
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