shivakrishna Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 I'm having a little dilemma with online dating. Over at POF I've connected with a number of very nice ladies, all of whom could develop into something good. Does anyone have any advice about dating mulitple ladies as a way to find the best match. I'm finding I have to be very careful about any sort of commitment for an event. I'm not trying to be "cavalier" about this, I'm trying to work options to get the best deal. I'm sure even a woman understands this, and most likely know all about it. Please tell me ladies how do I go about this. sk
DustySaltus Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 I would date no more than three woman at a time. If you are not feeling something with one of them than you can replace them with someone else. Be open and honest with all of them and give them the respect that they deserve. If you have a clear idea of what you want, you should be fine....as long as you are honest.
BackUpOrGetStung Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 I made the mistake of throwing online dating into my already complicated dating life. I've been doing the same thing and for a while it got a little out of control(and expensive!). I started off with the same idea as you, and it turned into banging a different girl almost every night of the week. I think the 3 person max is a good idea and helps make everything more managable. My problem was that I had too many options and it turned into something that I didn't really want. People also got hurt, which may or may not matter to you. I think you'll be okay and you'll know when you've found someone you want to really pursue. Good luck.
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