Lady_M Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 I do believe in some of the He is just not that into you doctrine but this case is not so straight forward. I met this guy about a year ago. At that time he had a serious girl friend but from the time I met him the relationship was in trouble. They split a few months later. He approached me the week they split and I basically backed away as I just did not want to be the rebound relationship. He found another girl the very same evening. I really thought it was a rebound thing but weeks on they are still together. Did I miss the boat? He calls me all the time, compliments me, shares things and we meet up and chat etc. I am confused as to whether I have been put into the friend category or not.
Awesome Username Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 This guy might be a serial dater. Depending on how long he was with his ex, he might just be using this girl to distract him from his feelings about it. You certainly did the right thing.
Leia Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 He doesn't sound like he's ready to date exclusively. I'd put him right on the "friend" list.
counterman Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 I agree with the Awesome Username and Leia. If you were interested in the guy, you might have been tempted to fall for his attempts to approach you. Good on you for backing away! He's just trying to rectify his situation with his break-up. Keep him as a friend.
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