ippon Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Trying to avoid crying, cause she was really not looking to me as the sort of girl could cheat you. She's 6 years younger than me, we've been together almost 2 years, first 6 months perfect, she was living in my town, we were always together. Then she went back home and we had to go for a long distance relationship, it still worked fine for 1 year, we were seeing each other every month or so, mostly I was going to see her, she was always so tender and sweet to me, everything i wanted was a good life with her and i was working hard to get a good job, or something that could get me closer to her. Last six months I went to a place close to hers, but we were still not living together, and she was sad about it, I knew, I tried to make her reason and explained it was better enduring in view of the future.. Here comes the bad end.. I brought her on vacation for New Year, then I got back home, making plans on how and when to see her again. 3 weeks after she tells me that she has just met another guy, and that she has already went all the way with him. Now I feel like I don't have anything inside, I just wasted my heart on her, thinking our love was strong and unique. Please help me, I feel so cold deep inside.
stillafool Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 I'm so sorry you are in pain. It is hard to maintain a relationship when you are far from each other. Do not contact her and beg her back whatever you do. It will hurt for a while but continue to seek a good job. Once you get into your new job you will be too busy to think about her. Try to get out of the house and be with friends. We at LS are always here if you want to post more about your feelings.
Eisenhower Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Sometimes I think the human capacity to love is only exceeded by the capacity to hurt. I feel your pain. I'm sorry. Eisenhower
ATR Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Oh mann i feel your pain, i was in a similar situation a year or so ago - it hurt like hell and gets worse before it gets better. Can safely say i'm all healed now. You can't continue with her - how dare she - delete her from your life. I did and honestly its the best thing you can ever do. Start NC and never go back. She has no respect for you - which means you must go on independently. So NC yeah?
paleblue Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 your love was unique the problem is you guys lived too far apart is what it sounds like. sorry man. it sucks.
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