dyzfunctioned Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 No idea where to put this but revelations of late have left me in a really really bad situation. Anyone who has any ideas would really really help me out right now. Me and my ex broke up about two weeks ago, was sort of starting to get over her but that doesn't really matter, I'm pretty sure today forced me to get over her right here and now. I was a rebound, she got back with her ex, her ex found out we slept together after doing some asking around, and since then I've been getting death threats, he hit her in an attempt to get her to tell him my address, I see him on a fairly regular basis, and I'm not exactly hard to find. Not to mention this guy is legitimately fairly psycho and hated me intensely before even knowing all this. To top this off, she was still in love with him and as a result is extremely sad, which I shouldn't give a **** about considering what she did to me, but she's got a somewhat suicidal past so I really feel like I need to be there to help her get through it. What do I do? Anyone?
Simon Attwood Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Notify the police of your death threats immediately!
Author dyzfunctioned Posted January 27, 2010 Author Posted January 27, 2010 I don't exactly have hard evidence of the death threats, I'm not convinced he'd actually try to kill me although I know he will at least try to fight me, and it would upset her even if i know that's something I shouldn't be taking into consideration.
TaraMaiden Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Alert the police of your concerns anyway. he might be known to them. And prepare the groundwork for filing an exclusion order. As for her? (Oh, I can be mean....) let her suck it up. Everything she's done, has been her choice. She's an adult, and she has to face the consequences of her dysfunctional decisions. You really don't owe her anything, although I see your compassion, and what you think are your moral obligations, are cutting in here... Don't befuddle your decisions on what action to take, with your emotional attachment to her. I'm sorry, but if trying to help her means putting your own safety on the line, you'll have to think of safer ways to do it.
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