creyente7 Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 well, ive had this girlfriend for almost 6 months now, and everything is going good, last week its been raining the whole week and i didnt see her for that whole week. she's been having alot of stresses and stuff with parents, school, and such. now recently ive been talking to her lately and its not the same anymore, i just have a feeling that she might be loosing her feelings for me and thats what i am afraid of. i asked her today if she would be busy the whole day at school and she said yes, but this has been her reason for a while now and its lessening the time that i see her. i really dont know what i should do, and what i should tell her, because if im the one not giving her, her time and she cant focus in school maybe thats the problem. i dont know what to tell her. Should i just give her some space and let her take care of her things and ask her to tell me when she's not busy anymore? i am kind of frustrated too, but if i tell her this, then it might be a bad idea that i am being selfish and only want her time for me. but this shouldnt be the case because i only see her 3 times a week for a max of 30 minutes and i wouldnt consider that as taking up her space and time. when i dont see her, i talk to her on the phone for 30 minutes too but thats it. if anyone can give me an advice on what i should do (if i should talk to her, or just tell her that she should do her first priorities first before me.) I want to send her the message that i want her to have time for me too... but not in a bad way. and also lately, she hasnt been sounding sweet at all to me. as if she's changed. any advice would be good... EDIT: she told me recently that im the guy she wants to be with and that she stresses alot because she hasnt been with anyguy for that long five months and love so strongly, she just wants us to have a good relationship. For the last two times that we've talked, she would check my emails for her and then leave without replying. she would tell me that she has to go but she doesnt tell me why. should i do the give her space/no contact method and let her miss me and once she sets down, she'll come to me? or could it be that she's really busy? i guess im just being paranoid but i should try and let the day pass by for a day or two, if she's still the same i should do something about it.
stillafool Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Yes give her space and plenty of it. I would not call her again. Let her call you. There is something about rain that brings out the romance in most people. On rainy days and nights I want to be with my loved one. I am married and just can't wait for my husband to get home from work when it rains. I can't imagine how she would want a relationship but not want to spend time with you.
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