LakesideDream Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 Woggs, Some of your threads are disturbing. This one is disturbing. I don't want to reach back 20 years for "the good times". It's hard enough living a tolerable and productive life today, without having yesterdays to compare it to. Count your blessings Woggs, Live today. Believe me, you will run out of tomorrows soon enough.
Outcast Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 Woggle is more in love with his own image of the wronged man than with anybody else. It gives him his identity. He can't imagine how to function as a whole, healthy man so he clings desperately to his schtick. It's the role he wants to play in life so he chooses 'facts' to 'prove' his case - even though he can empirically be proven wrong. Case in point? Most of the women who come in here in misery have a husband who treats them well but they fell out of love and think of him as a brother. There are very few women who come on here that are actually being mistreated by a man. There are very few threads here from women who thought they had something good and then were betrayed. Can absolutely be proven dead wrong - but to acknowledge that, he'd have to loosen his death grip on the 'poor Woggle' persona. It's too scary for him to leave this victim identity behind. He'll fight everyone who advises him to do so because he thinks there'll be no Woggle left if it's not Woggle-of-the-tragic-romance-badly-wronged.
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