BettyBoo Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 It beggars belief that a grown man would be asking such a question. I think the woman in question should run a mile all 50lbs plus of her. Christs sake man grow up and do all women a favour
Ariadne Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 I met this indian girl...She's got a beautiful face and long black hair and wonderful personality...conversation was great and i had fun talking with her. Well, now we are getting closer. If you love her the form will not matter to you.
ella23 Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 No, it doesn't sound like you'd be happy with someone overweight.
lino Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Sounds to me like you'd be wasting your time OP. He needs an Aussie chick then. We love the Mexicans. Really?
New_Life08 Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Oh boy, I see karma just waiting to happen here!! LOL. Maybe she will have to defend you in court one day after finding out you dissed her bc she was overweight......OR... Maybe she will wind up dating a good friend of yours and end up becoming really hot... ...OR... maybe you will give in and date her, find out she is a sensational lover and great person... oh but then she dumps you for no particular reason at all... but you later find out by reading in a forum that she's calling you a two pump chump and she just can-n-n-n-not deal with it... ....Karma's possibilities are endless!!
New_Life08 Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Why is an 'Alpha' male asking anonymous internet users for approval on whether he should date a girl or not? Good point!!
sally4sara Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Alpha...... You could stand to lose a good bit of weight yourself and on top of that work on your fitness. Your face is lacking symmetry; as though your nose was badly broken and your eyes are a bit uneven. I'd rate you a 4 on your best day. Do you feel better for having read that? It is my honest opinion of your physical form..... If it didn't make you feel better, how on Earth do you think this woman's dating experience with you will leave her feeling? Don't waste her time. she was nothing but nice to you and it would be rude for you to enter her life just long enough to make her feel inadequate to a guy who is, at best, a 4 himself.
Awesome Username Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 If she's actually FROM India, there are certain places where being 50 lbs overweight is considered very beautiful and women try to gain weight on purpose. It could be completely intentional on her part.
ella23 Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 If she's actually FROM India, there are certain places where being 50 lbs overweight is considered very beautiful and women try to gain weight on purpose. It could be completely intentional on her part. I agree that curvier women are considered more attractive in certain places, but not 50 lbs overweight. Could be true of some places, I guess.
jw90063 Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Alpha, it's clear you just want to create drama or cause an uproar. I mean "Should I go out with a fat girl?". Surely you could have thought of more than one way of saying that. 50lbs overweight is unhealthy, and I realize this would also be highly unattractive to some men. I honestly wouldn't date a man 50lbs overweight either, unless they were in the process of losing it, and I liked them enough otherwise. Nothing wrong with it bothering you, Alpha, but it's the way you are approaching the subject. "Should I date a fat a**", is basically the way you put it. Quite frankly, I don't think you should date anyone, but that's just my honest opinion.
Awesome Username Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 I agree that curvier women are considered more attractive in certain places, but not 50 lbs overweight. Could be true of some places, I guess. I think that India is one of the very few places that this is the case. The only reason why I say that is that I knew an older woman from India and used to hang out with her at her store when I was bored. She was slightly overweight. One day, a huge woman came in and she yelled out ah her, "How did you do that?" The lady was flustered and embarassed at first, but the older Indian lady got all excited and told her about all of the shakes she was trying to drink and the lotions or whatever. It was completely the opposite of anything I've ever heard, and the big girl just smiled and said, "I'm just built this way!" By the way, the same older Indian lady always told me that I was too skinny. I don't think it's like this in the big cities out there, but in some rural parts this seems to be the rule. Also I've heard of women who work in tech gaining a lot of weight from their sit-and-do-nothing job, and suddenly getting the attention of their Indian coworkers. Long hair and meat on the bones is apparently key in some places out there.
paddington bear Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Well, Alpha...wondering did you do the dreaded deed and do another date with a fat girl. Personally through reading these threads, I got the feeling that you did really like her, and then convinced yourself otherwise. Is it the lack of attractiveness factor regarding her weight that puts you off, or is it that you would worry that you might actually fall for her and then would be embarrassed to have a fat girl as a girlfriend?
Johnny M Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 This thread is definitive proof that alphamale is not actually an alpha male. Alpha males don't date fat chicks - that's what desperate beta males are for
laRubiaBonita Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 So good looking guys are taking the average girls and now the fat ones too? i think you should go out with her.... you never know. i bet she is telling her friends that she met this older man, maybe 10 years her senior- should she go out with him? he's all old and stuff.....
jw90063 Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 This thread is definitive proof that alphamale is not actually an alpha male. Alpha males don't date fat chicks - that's what desperate beta males are for Well, first there was a stalker chick, then a Swinger he considered dating as well, now a beach whale. Desperation or bad luck?
Ms. Joolie Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 I had sex with an overweight man once. I didn't like it.
Art_Critic Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 i bet she is telling her friends that she met this older man, maybe 10 years her senior- should she go out with him? he's all old and stuff..... and smells like moth balls
Author alphamale Posted January 27, 2010 Author Posted January 27, 2010 Why is an 'Alpha' male asking anonymous internet users for approval on whether he should date a girl or not? its part of my new "glass house dating" policy
donnamaybe Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 So good looking guys are taking the average girls and now the fat ones too? Have you SEEN a pic of Alpha?
ella23 Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Have you SEEN a pic of Alpha? I'm getting curious. Everyone but me seems to know what he looks like. lol
Author alphamale Posted January 27, 2010 Author Posted January 27, 2010 This thread is definitive proof that alphamale is not actually an alpha male. Alpha males don't date fat chicks - that's what desperate beta males are for its ok i've decided against calling her
laRubiaBonita Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 its ok i've decided against calling her well why did you ask All of us when you could have just PMed Johnny M?
Author alphamale Posted January 27, 2010 Author Posted January 27, 2010 well why did you ask All of us when you could have just PMed Johnny M? i had to take time to think about it and i cannot get past her weight issue
SOLACEMENT Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Yeah so a few weeks ago i met this indian girl and then ran into her again this past sat nite. She is 29 and a lawyer. She's got a beautiful face and long black hair and wonderful personality. Problem is she could lose 50 lbs or so. We talked for a couple hours sat nite and exchanged numbers. The conversation was great and i had fun talking with her. I can tell she is very interested but i don't know if i can get over the weight issue. Everything else about her is great. I just can't see myself sleeping with someone that heavy (and being indian she's not going to give up the poontang easily even if she is heavy). We're supposed to get together this sat nite (we were drinking when we set this up) but i don't know if i should go thru with it. I'll let the LSers decide if i should go out with her or not. I am pretty sure you made your decision..but you shouldn't settle because you would later resent it ...and end up hurting her...and thats not fair to you or her..best of luck
Zeegagge Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 If I was in your area I would swoop right in on this one. Oh well.
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