Author McGrupp Posted January 28, 2010 Author Posted January 28, 2010 ut, where there is life, there is hope. Not false hope on thinking she will come back though. Real hope that I am going to meet my future loving wife soon. I have fantasies about my ex coming back, thinking it would be the same and I could forgive her and make it work. But it won't. It's like people who say money can't buy you happiness, but they still want to find out anyways if it is true or not. i like this. i also found some old emails my ex sent me in the last month and how it was way over re-reading those then the actually day she said it was over. its so sad though. to think about what you couldve done to salvage it or whatever. guess it wasnt meant to be.
prayingshecomesback Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 Yeah man... I have a lot of what if's and what might have been's.... But if they truely loved you, an unconditional love... They would have stuck with you till death do you part. Relationships are hard and not perfect. You didn't quit... She did. Don't ever forget that.
dyzfunctioned Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 My ex who dumped me just came back... I don't think I want her back though, I feel like I'm over her. Definitely thinking about it though...
Gere51 Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 I was dumped by my ex about 1.5 years ago and she threw a lot out at me obviously trying to get me to chase her. I would absolutely die and go to Hell first before taking any woman back that dumped me, no matter what the reason. I've never gone back to an ex and never will.
DenverBachelor Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 its so sad though. to think about what you couldve done to salvage it or whatever. guess it wasnt meant to be. When you're at the point in a relationship when you're tossing around the word salvage, you're probably with the wrong person. Trust me on this.
bananaboat11 Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 When you're at the point in a relationship when you're tossing around the word salvage, you're probably with the wrong person. Trust me on this. I'm going to tend to agree on that statement. So many better women out there.
sedgwick Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 why did u go back to your ex sedge? how long...and any other details. curiosity ... The biggest reason I broke up with my ex in the first place was that it was an LDR and had been for two years, with neither of us able to move. I got tired of it and wanted to see someone local. But then I dated someone else and realized he couldn't compare to my ex, so I went back. I guess it was about six months or so between the breakup and the getting back together. Ultimately, the distance broke us up for good. But he's still the best ex I've ever had and I miss him all the time.
Author McGrupp Posted January 28, 2010 Author Posted January 28, 2010 im feeling good today. the best revenge is to live well. im also thinking about all the bad times, how everything wasnt perfect. i still look back on the way i acted with regret (post breakup) but whatever...
sean1970 Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 im feeling good today. the best revenge is to live well. im also thinking about all the bad times, how everything wasnt perfect. i still look back on the way i acted with regret (post breakup) but whatever... Who are you and what have you done with McGrupp?
prayingshecomesback Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 im feeling good today. the best revenge is to live well. im also thinking about all the bad times, how everything wasnt perfect. i still look back on the way i acted with regret (post breakup) but whatever... Good job man. Its a roller coaster ride and you will have setbacks and remissions... just keep your eye on the prize that you will one day get over this. You will love again and meet the love of your life. Keep the faith and try not to be negative when you are vulnerable.
Tasha1675 Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 I think whether an ex who is the dumper comes back or not depends on many factors and it is down to the two people and their relationship. It's quite an over generalisation to say female dumpers never come back. Some people break up for good, and some don't. Break ups can produce a rollercoaster of emotions for the dumpee and the dumper. You never know what is around the corner, all we can do is try to learn from our mistakes and grow from our experiences. That's life.
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