shivakrishna Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 You could start to stalk her, then she would turn around without a doubt because you love her SO MUCH. That always works.....never. Move on 'bro there are plenty of fish in the sea. You're acting major wimp, she'd walk all over you anyway.
Author The Crown Posted January 27, 2010 Author Posted January 27, 2010 Im not obsessed or anything it is just still fresh since all this occurred less than a week ago I am not trying to be some kind of pussy. I just dont know what to do my friend invited me to a little get together and I know she will probably be there. It could be awkward but I thought there could be a way to go there and make myself look better than her.
BG1985 Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 You shouldn't go now that I think about it. This girl is driving you nuts, and you will be bothered by it the whole time she's there. You should ask your friend whether or not she will be there. If you go there and try to look better than this girl, it'll blow up in your face. This girl doesn't care about you, so there is nothing you can do to win her back. The fact that you have to ask whether or not you should go should answer your question right there.
meerkat stew Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 Go to the party and shamelessly hit on everybody with a vagina there except her. Don't be obvious about it, be nice to her, just be -real- nice to the other women.
BG1985 Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 I feel that if he goes there and shamelessly hits on all the other women, she'll view it as though he's doing it just to spite her. Either way she still has that effect on him.
Buttnutter100 Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 Crown: You must go to the party. Whether she is there or not. You are completely psyching yourself out. That's mentally unhealthy. If you see her there, do the following: 1. If she is obviously with another guy, i.e. a date, be courteous and smile, say hi, etc., but move on and spend most of your time socializing with other females. 2. If she does not seem to be "with" anyone, i.e. on an actual date, have a drink or two to work your courage up (but not too much). Then be a man, walk right up to her, look her straight in the eye and say: "Hey it's really great to see you again. I think you are one of the coolest people I know." You should be touching her arm lightly (not grabbing) while you're talking to her. Then give her a great big smile and say: "Hey I need to get another beer. Can I grab something for you?" If she says "yes" go and make her the strongest freaking cocktail you can, bring it back, and talk with her. If she says "No thank you" just smile and say "O.K. no problem. Isn't this a great party?" And then go have fun and chase some other women around.
Buttnutter100 Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 I feel that if he goes there and shamelessly hits on all the other women, she'll view it as though he's doing it just to spite her. Either way she still has that effect on him. His motivation does not really matter even if she thinks it's to spite her. It will still intrigue and stimulate her to be interested in him sexually if he hits on other girls especially if any of the other girls show the slightest bit of interest in him. His social value increases tremendously by doing this and that's a big turn on for this kind of girl.
meerkat stew Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 I feel that if he goes there and shamelessly hits on all the other women, she'll view it as though he's doing it just to spite her. Either way she still has that effect on him. The point is to get one of the other women, not her, who cares what she thinks? as long as he's not mean to her or acting weird around her. OP go up and hug her, and grab her ass while you hug her, and say "sorry my hand slipped." Then pour your beer over her head and launch a healthy rochambeau up her cooch. Erm... wait, no, sorry, thought this was my anger management class, don't do that OP. Don't do anything like that.
BG1985 Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 I still think that if he's still that into this girl, being around her will screw with him. Then again considering they haven't actually been in a relationship with each other, it should be easier to deal with her. So if you don't think seeing this girl will be a problem for you, I say go to the party and have fun. There are not too many good reasons to skip out on a fun party.
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