ilikegirls Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 ive been friends with her for like 2 years.. been two her house plenty of times i though her parents loved me.. always being really nice to me etc. etc. i went there on xmas to drop of a gift for her, they wanted me to stay, but i had to leave also spent new years with just her and her parents we been going out officially for about a month now, and her parents recently found out. she also told me, that her mom knew, and her dad kinda knew.. but not really she told me that they say she spends all her time on me.. doesn't concentrate of school (not true.. she get excellent grades) -took her phone away -took her car away -wont let her go out on weekends -her dad told her that we cant kiss in front of him (weird) but i think he saw us kissing.. thats how he found out -they think we are out doing drugs and having sex and other bad stuff idk what to do.. i asked her if she wanted me to talk to them, but she said no
clueless haha Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 damn, ride it out bro, they'll come around sooner or later it could be a test of what you're willing to go through while being with her
clueless haha Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 have they actually told her that she can't date you, if not, then this is a total test of what your true intentions/motives are, 100% test!
Author ilikegirls Posted February 3, 2010 Author Posted February 3, 2010 umm.. is she testing me or her parents? well she got her car back, but not her phone... she got her car back like the within the next dew days.. but its been over a week with no phone.. & her parents never said that we cant date... and i asked her if they like me... and she told me her mom defiantly does, but her dad probably does but they are just not too fond of her having a BF.
GoneButNotForgotten Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 The parents are testing you. Are you her first bf? If so there are a few more hoops to jump through. Don't worry about it to much, it isn't that much fun but usually the trial period gets over pretty quickly. It is basically just a matter of wearing them down with politeness and persistence. Be respectful of their requests, make sure she stays on top of her stuff(grades, housework, family stuff), and kill em with kindness. BTW the moms are usually the easy ones. The dads tend to take a while longer. At least in my experience, ymmv.
Author ilikegirls Posted February 4, 2010 Author Posted February 4, 2010 no im not her first BF i remember her telling me on new years "you are the only guy my parents like" but i guess they didnt know we were going out then.. -- also i cant really be kind to them, when i never get to see them she not really allowed out anymore :/. so i dont really go over there and the only times i get to see her is she comes to my house like right after school somedays for like 30min or before or after she goes to work, or if she runs errands she may invite me. and it really sucks her not having a phone. we have to talk only through IM or in person
Green Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 seriously don't worry about the parents thing, it will make you seem unatractive. Worrying period is unatractive. Just enjoy your self and be happy with the knowledge that parents who make things dificult only drive the girl closer to the guy. All you can do is be respectful to the parents, but really you shouldn't care if they like you or not. I mean its good that you want them to like you but if they don't then thats there problem and it won't effect how she feels about you.
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