Juno Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 I don't understand his motivation. When we broke up over the summer, he quite frequently texted me naked pics of himself. So much so, I had to block him. At the beginning of the month I broke 6 month NC, mainly to wish him a happy b-day and new year. For only one day we texted pleasantries until 2:00 in the morning, then went back to NC. It has been 3 plus weeks of NC since that day. Now he has texted me naked pics of himself, taken in the middle of the day, while he was at work! Why do this? There has been no overture by either party to get back together or at a minimum to hook up. Does he think exposing himself to me will entice me to chase him? What could he hope to gain by doing this?
cogent_love Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 This seems very odd!! Unfortunately it seems that he is one of those personalities where if you give him an inch, he takes a mile. Texting til 2 in the morning ... he might have taken that the wrong way. Was it really all pleasantries? Haha jk. But yes, if his your ex and you don't appreciate the pictures, cut contact again. Why deal with it? He can be a part of you life, if you want him to be, when he can act like a real adult. It's kind of creepy to send pictures of yourself naked to someone if you know they aren't interested. So my main advice would be don't give him any encouragement, which to him- seems to be any contact at all. Bummer : /
hoping2heal Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 I don't understand his motivation. When we broke up over the summer, he quite frequently texted me naked pics of himself. So much so, I had to block him. At the beginning of the month I broke 6 month NC, mainly to wish him a happy b-day and new year. For only one day we texted pleasantries until 2:00 in the morning, then went back to NC. It has been 3 plus weeks of NC since that day. Now he has texted me naked pics of himself, taken in the middle of the day, while he was at work! Why do this? There has been no overture by either party to get back together or at a minimum to hook up. Does he think exposing himself to me will entice me to chase him? What could he hope to gain by doing this? well, you broke nc after 6 months time. He is very aware he still has you and apparently gets a nice ego kick out of it. So go on, keep giving positive reinforcement to a jerkoff. This is what you will get in return.
bananaboat11 Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 well, you broke nc after 6 months time. He is very aware he still has you and apparently gets a nice ego kick out of it. So go on, keep giving positive reinforcement to a jerkoff. This is what you will get in return. Sorry to hijack the thread, but hi
skydiveaddict Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 the naked pics thing seems really wacko to me. You're better off without him
maliks32 Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 I think this is very weird. He obviously gets a huge kick out of doing this. I suspect you are not the only one he sends these pics. Change your number and this time do not break NC, if you don't have children there is no reason to stay in contact. PR: wait... I: wait... L: wait... LD: wait... I: wait...wait... Rank: wait... Traffic: wait... Price: wait... C: wait...
sunrae Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 I don't understand his motivation. When we broke up over the summer, he quite frequently texted me naked pics of himself. So much so, I had to block him. At the beginning of the month I broke 6 month NC, mainly to wish him a happy b-day and new year. For only one day we texted pleasantries until 2:00 in the morning, then went back to NC. It has been 3 plus weeks of NC since that day. Now he has texted me naked pics of himself, taken in the middle of the day, while he was at work! Why do this? There has been no overture by either party to get back together or at a minimum to hook up. Does he think exposing himself to me will entice me to chase him? What could he hope to gain by doing this? Because he's a freak and he pleasures himself from it.
Author Juno Posted January 27, 2010 Author Posted January 27, 2010 Because he's a freak and he pleasures himself from it. lol...agreed he's a freak. I don't get what pleasure he can obtain from this because there is no "real" or "virtual" interaction.
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