chloe1408 Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 me and my ex have been broken up for 6 weeks and the first 2 weeks i was doing the usual please take me back thing. then for the nxt 2 weeks we didnt talk however for the past 2 weeks we've been emailing, nothing like that, basically jus sorting out giving things back etc, very hostile. but it seems ive sent him alot of emails and in some of them i sound abit desperate i want to regain some sort of self respect would going NC again now have any effect?
Howitzer Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 Doing NC is more for yourself than for the other person. I feel that you use it as a way to create some space for yourself, to let yourself recover without distractions. It's not really supposed to be used as a way to get the other person back. I guess, I'm saying if you went NC, you would be working on yourself, so yes it would work. As long as you put in the effort.
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