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cant get over my ex girlfriend, how to get her to love me again

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i miss my ex girlfriend so much. I've been through bad break ups before(cheated on, etc) but this one is different. She says thigns to try and hurt me, but i know she doesnt mean them and she always says i still love you and i miss you, you know this, i just need time and space. Every week i do ok, until sat/sundays during the day, when me and her EVERY weekend would just hang out and relax and watch our shows. We lived together for a year and dated for almost 2 years. Its so hard during the days on teh weekends. She says shes happy now to our friends and shed rather be sad without me than sad with me. last week she told me she loved me and i was perfect in every day and the most handsom man alive. then she saw a facebook status of a lil wayne song quoting sex, condoms, stuff like that and bugged out on me. I just wish i could get things back to where they were. we haven't talked in 5 days now. i called her yesterday only to discuss some stuff about our previous landlord and security deposit - i told her to call me when she gets a chance. Well later that day my friend texted her and was askin what she was doing next weekend and she was responding to him. So i know she had time to talk, im just confused why she wouldnt call em to talk about something so harmless. I do so well and then every now and then BOOM emotions flood me and i go CRAZY, i deavtivated my facebook account, not that it matters cuz she defriended me, but i did it cuz i was always checking on her and STILL AM! i log on then check her friends page tos ee what shes been saying and some guys pages then deactivate it again. I really am in love with her and its hard for me to find someone right now, the bar scene isn't really for me and i feel hopeless in finding someone else. we even went as far as to where we wanted to have "our" wedding and name "our" kids. she said no one will ever replace me and that she just needs time with her doin online courses and her job. She usually would ahve contacted me by now but hasn't. i called her work this morning just to hear her voice then hung up. please someone help me figure out what i need to do to get her attention again and how to rekindle our love. when we hang out in person shes madly in love with me again and then thinks all crazy when we are not together adn thigns all i want is sex sex sex. its very depressing can i have som female advice on what to do to get her back to me? i want ehr back cuz im in love with her, i dont know what to do im so depressed without her i told her EVERYTHING ive never told ANYONE before, i miss my best friend and i want her back so badly. its been about a month and a half since we broke up. please help.

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so when i called and left a message yesterday i ahven't heard anything back...should i text her and ask about hte security deposit? when should this be done? i also have half days of work on friday and will be working out where she works, should i wait until then, go and see her at her desk and talk to her about it? i just want to know if she misses me and still is in love with me, i know shes busy but who cant afford a 5-10 min call to talk about stuff. ugh im so depressed! - i really just miss my best friend, my friends say i should tell her this but i feel if i sai "i miss my best friend" that it will give her power over me to make her think i miss ou relationship...which is NOT what i miss cuz we argued a lot towards the end, but i miss her being my best friend and telling her everything...any suggestions!?

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As hard as it is, you need to go NO CONTACT!... Sadly it seems like her actions want that..

Stay off Facebook (glad you deactivated it).. Put a big sign on your cell phone that says "NO" for No Dont call her.... and allow yourself some time to grieve.... I know it sucks. But only time will heal... But you are making yourself misserable....

 

On the weekends try to stay busy. Join a gym and go workout. Go visit famliy or friends you havent seen in a while. Stay busy...

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