willowfields Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 i know that being jealous of mm fb is idiotic. i'm not looking really looking for advice, just needed to get my feelings out. i found from him having his account, lately i have not been warm to him, but rather cold. it all stems from my being jealous of his fb account. idiotic and childish i know.
greengoddess Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 Not idiotic at all. Maybe it gives you a view into his real life that you are not part of? That would make anyone jealous. Is he lying to you? Saying he has no relationship with his wife when his facebook shows the contrary?
Author willowfields Posted January 25, 2010 Author Posted January 25, 2010 no not one picture of his wife is on there. just his children, family, and his friends. i'm so jealous, it's sick
Author willowfields Posted January 25, 2010 Author Posted January 25, 2010 because of this jealousy, i'm so mean to him
Author willowfields Posted January 25, 2010 Author Posted January 25, 2010 he is mean to me because of my farmville
greengoddess Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 he is mean to me because of my farmville LOL how could anyone have a problem with farmville? He may not have pictures of his wife on there but what about you? His friends are on there and I'm sure you are not validated publicly in real life or on his facebook. That's got to hurt.
Leia Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 he is mean to me because of my farmville Omg. This is the funniest thing I read tonight! Is his not as nice as yours?
Author willowfields Posted January 25, 2010 Author Posted January 25, 2010 i did n't join for friends, i don't even have a profile pic up, just the game. i like playing it. i ignore all friend requests. you want to talk to me call me.
Author willowfields Posted January 25, 2010 Author Posted January 25, 2010 if i could figure out why i feel this way, then i could stop it, i just dk why.
greengoddess Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 i did n't join for friends, i don't even have a profile pic up, just the game. i like playing it. i ignore all friend requests. you want to talk to me call me. Then why soes your farmville bother him? Do you not accept friends because he will be jealous? To play farmville you need a decent number of friends that play or you can't expand
Author willowfields Posted January 25, 2010 Author Posted January 25, 2010 he was making fun of me, and farmville, and the whole thing. the othernight i asked him if i could use his laptop to check my farm, and he would not let me check my farm. he made fun of the whole thing
Author willowfields Posted January 25, 2010 Author Posted January 25, 2010 honestly i don't want pics of me all over the internet. on my fb, there's no picture. i'm a very private person, and don't believe in fb. there's no family, or nothing, just farmville.people who air their pics all over the place are attention seekers.
greengoddess Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 he was making fun of me, and farmville, and the whole thing. the othernight i asked him if i could use his laptop to check my farm, and he would not let me check my farm. he made fun of the whole thing Oh no. Examine that. Him not letting you on his laptop seems like a huge red flag to me. He shouldn't make fun of something you enjoy either. It is mindless fun. Nothing wrong with doing that sometimes.
Author willowfields Posted January 25, 2010 Author Posted January 25, 2010 wm, him not letting use his laptop. he said to me we don't use computers for farmville. this whole thing, i've been rotten to him lately
greengoddess Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 wm, him not letting use his laptop. he said to me we don't use computers for farmville. this whole thing, i've been rotten to him lately Yes we do lol. You have to harvest your crops before they die. It was a simple thing to let you on real quick. I would be very concerned he didn't want you using his laptop.
Author willowfields Posted January 25, 2010 Author Posted January 25, 2010 he lets me use his laptop for my banking and email, just not farmville.
Author willowfields Posted January 25, 2010 Author Posted January 25, 2010 my jealousy is childish i know, but until i figure out why i feel this way, i need to not deal with him. i cut him off, because i will just attack him. i don't want to do that.
greengoddess Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 my jealousy is childish i know, but until i figure out why i feel this way, i need to not deal with him. i cut him off, because i will just attack him. i don't want to do that. It's not childish to be jealous of a life you have to see outside of yours. It's like peeking through his windows and no one should have to do that with someone they love. You are not childish. You are having a normal reaction to a painful situation.
Author willowfields Posted January 25, 2010 Author Posted January 25, 2010 ty, i thought my feelings where phycotic. at this point i don't want to talk to him, or be around him. i know today i wont hear from him, it's his sons b-day, and i know he is depressed because he could not make it back to see him for his b-day. that was bothering him. i need to sort through my feelings, otherwise they will eat at me. if i can't, i can't have anything to do with him.
torranceshipman Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 only my farmville friends Lol!! Are you joking with us? :D
whichwayisup Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 Someone must have hacked into her account. This doesn't sound like willow at all.
Author willowfields Posted January 25, 2010 Author Posted January 25, 2010 fb can attract the wrong kind of people. i choose not to have a profile picture, because i don't want my picture all over the internet. i'm a private person. joined more for farmville then anything else. like someone said it is mindless fun.
Author willowfields Posted January 25, 2010 Author Posted January 25, 2010 let me ask you something, what does me having to keep my fb acct private, have to do with anything. my info is not out there for all to see. no pics of me or my family. really it's more farmville, and there are a couple of friends. i'm very private that way. i don't want strange people looking at my life info. when it comes to fb, i'm private. imo, the wrong people can be attracted to it. it's more people who like to play farmville.
atlnay Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 I'm curious willowfields, if you don't mind me asking, how old are you? lol i was thisclose to asking the same thing.
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