Mik12 Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 This morning i woke up to a feeling of disbelief.... 4 months later im like wtf happened. I mean there was nothig essentially wrong with the relationship... I mean sure things werent as passionate and all but there was no hate or bitterness or anything like that. So why in the hell havent we spoken in nearly 3 months! I did NC to avoid the pain of seeing her with someone else but she had no reason not to want me in her life anymore. I mean a week before she left me she complained that i didnt say i loved her enough...now we havent spoken in 82 days???? Wtf happened lol.... I really dont get it....
curiousnycgirl Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 I'm with you - I truly don't get it either. We were best friends, now we are nothing.
ginyi1111 Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 its the same for me as well i got dumped 2 days after we had a wonderful holiday together. 2 days after he slept in my bed and made love to me... maybe it was just an illusion that he was happy with me and that he loved me...maybe it was all just in my head....i was too blind to not see the picture clearly
Catseye8 Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 I got "You're the most important thing in my life" and "I want to grow old with you" just days before he left. It's bizarre.
xyoungforeternityx Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 Mine's not over his ex. We didnt end things badly but I tried NC for 2 weeks. He always initated contact, rarely replied, except the times when he was 'depressed and confused'. He asks to meet up on saturday, he wants us to get back together, but 'take things slowly'. How can we 'take things slowly' after how we've been for 7 months? We've met each others families/friends/live at each other's houses, spoke every day, spent lots of time together. Then this. He tells me Im wonderful, amazing blah blah, how he feels the same. I fell for it again, I havent heard from him since. Its like he's got me where he wants me, even though I told him I dont want to be just there for his convenience. He insisted Im not. That he thinks things can work. That he doesnt want to hurt me. He's gone from 'falling for me and loving me' to 'really likes me'. People just play with other people's minds. I thought I trusted him but not sure after all this.... I really don't get it.
ukguy1985 Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 i dont get it either. maybe it scares the person or something.
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