torranceshipman Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 (edited) Omg, what a jackass. I cannot begin to tell you how disrespectful I find this. He is a complete schmoe. Edited January 26, 2010 by torranceshipman
AAlike Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 The more I think about this - if this is true, how have you not left yet? I mean, what exactly was your reaction the first time that this took place? If you've asked him about it "a million times" it has seemingly been going on for a while, right?
jw90063 Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 and even though I have been faithful to him, he has this overjealous, possessive attitude with me that it's starting to worry me. Sometimes at random, but usually before I get intimate with him, he does these "body inspections", which is actually physically touching me down under and checking if I feel "loose". It's quite offensive and it's bugging me like crazy. I've brought this up a million times to him but he keeps believing that by checking me, it'll show the real "truth" if i've been faithful. He's insecure...VERY insecure. Is this a good enough reason to leave him? I'm starting to believe so. Oh my god. There is nothing else to say, but get the heck away from him. He is mental.
JackJack Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 Glad you're dumping him....that is pure control on his part..and no way for you to live. Its more about insecurity within himself, not about you, but he is projecting that onto you, good for you for moving on.
Jersey Shortie Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 Degrading. Sexually Abusive. Creepy. Glad you are moving on OP.
You'reasian Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 Sheesh. Does he also make you walk through a metal detector? I'd leave. Is this the new thing in Miami?
scatterd Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 My first husband did the same to me then after that he beat me.He was very controling and abusive I would run as fast as I could.dont let him get very close anymore.And how is he going to be able to tell it goes back the way it was soon after next he is ging to look at your underware to see if they are dry or wet.How many people leave evidence that are woman anyway.Good luck. :bunny::bunny:
You'reasian Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 I wouldn't mind if my girlfriend searched me when I came home.... sorry, just trying to lighten the mood up here.
OndaChin Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 Without TRUST there can be no "true" relationship based on love. No respecting man would do what he's doing to you. If I was dating you and felt that un-trusting of you, I'd just break up. Why bother? He sounds like a control freak. Dump him!
MizzBlue72 Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 OMG - you shouldn't have to ask Dump HIM!!!!
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