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Anyways i'm meeting Maureen tonite at 6pm for dinner and a movie. Many people recommended "Up in the Air" so we're going to see that. She wanted to see a chick flick.

 

Her friends told her its an emotional movie. I hope i don't start crying or anything :lmao:

 

This is the girl i met 2 wks ago if any of you remember. I wonder if she'll kiss on the first date? :laugh:

 

Anyways we'll see if this girl is another dud. I'll keep you posted on the details.

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This is a very emotional movie; i watched it with my 7 year old daughter and cried...i never cry.

I would think that after that movie, she give ya a kiss....

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Good luck, guy....

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good luck, its hard finding that happy medium, i.e., somewhere between a dud and crazy.

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good luck, its hard finding that happy medium, i.e., somewhere between a dud and crazy.

indeed pb...

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Don't give her your number just yet.:laugh:

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well we ate at max & ermas then saw the movie (which was ok but not great). held hands thru the movie.

 

after the flick i walked her to her car. didn't attempt the kiss. told her i'll call her and if theres mutual interest we can get together again.

 

and then that was it...

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well we ate at max & ermas then saw the movie (which was ok but not great). held hands thru the movie.

 

after the flick i walked her to her car. didn't attempt the kiss. told her i'll call her and if theres mutual interest we can get together again.

 

and then that was it...

 

What? You didn't attempt to kiss her? What was all the fuss about no kissy kissy on first dates? :lmao:

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well we ate at max & ermas

What'd you have to eat?

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What? You didn't attempt to kiss her? What was all the fuss about no kissy kissy on first dates? :lmao:

it was because of that last scenario that i didn't go in. she was a cool girl and if we go out again i'll go in for the kiss. i didn't feel like putting her on the spot. better to keep it casual at first

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What'd you have to eat?

i had a cheeseburger w/ loaded baked potatoe and she had like grilled teriyaki chix breasts w/ brown rice

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What'd you have to eat?

 

Apparently not Maureen :laugh:

 

told her i'll call her and if theres mutual interest we can get together again.

 

This part confuses me Alpha.. did you tell her the "if there's mutual interest" part ?

 

The other thing that confuses me is how are you to know if there is mutual interest if you don't call her and talk with her ?

 

Dude.. you really needed to kiss her ;)

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Yeah, that sounds pretty good. Nothing wrong with waiting just a little;)

 

Hope all goes well for the next date!

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Apparently not Maureen :laugh:

 

:lmao:

 

This part confuses me Alpha.. did you tell her the "if there's mutual interest" part ?

 

The other thing that confuses me is how are you to know if there is mutual interest if you don't call her and talk with her ?

i said to her and i quote "i'll give you a call and if there is mutual interest we can get together again...."

 

Dude.. you really needed to kiss her ;)

i did get a hug but i wasn't feeling up to any rejectioin tonite. you can't be alphamale 100% of the time. plus i sort of got the feeling that she wouldn't be up for a kiss right now.

 

but we did hold hands during the movie. she didn't mind that

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we did hold hands during the movie. she didn't mind that

 

That's a good sign :)

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That's a good sign :)

indeed. i figured that was enough physical interaction for tonite. and i also got brownie points for sitting thru a george clooney movie :lmao:

 

i think she'll be receptive to a 2nd date

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That's a good sign :)

 

In fact, this girl could have no trouble to do the kiss if she was fine with physical contact of holding hands.

 

I know that I can not do intimate physical contact during first dates which includes kisses in mouth and holding hands. Some men want to touch my hands on first dates, I totally can not handle it.

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Good, maybe there will finally be a second date. You go on so many first dates.

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Some men want to touch my hands on first dates, I totally can not handle it.

whys that?

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Good, maybe there will finally be a second date. You go on so many first dates.

i went on a 2nd date w/ that dawn chick

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i went on a 2nd date w/ that dawn chick

 

I forgot which one that was. So what happened? Why did you stop seeing her? Are you interested in this Maureen? Maybe this will go well :love:

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I forgot which one that was. So what happened? Why did you stop seeing her? Are you interested in this Maureen? Maybe this will go well :love:

everything will be well documented for u to follow

 

this is part of my new "glass-house dating" scheme

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whys that?

 

In my experience, all men from India and Middle Eastern typically want to hold a girl's hands during the first date. Sometimes, Italians and Latinos want to do that on the second date.

No White american men wanted to do that with me.

I typically can not do it. It does not feel right to me that a stranger

plays with my hands in a sexual way.

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It would be pretty hilarious if the chick was on LS

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wouldn't be up for a kiss right now.

 

It was probably the cheeseburger and teriyaki.

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