theizz Posted January 24, 2010 Posted January 24, 2010 So I'm 28 and I haven't really dated much in the last 7 years since I broke up with my long time girl friend. Then about 2 months ago I decided to start working on my love life again since it was completely lacking. So I dated a couple girls. I went on 2 dates with each and honestly felt kind of bored. I mean they seem pretty cool. I don't think there's anything wrong with them. But eventually we'd end up just kind of sitting around watching TV and stuff, which I don't like to do very often. So how do you people keep from tearing your eyes out with boredom on dates? I mean other than f-ing around, because obviously that's fun, but only a small percentage of the total time you're with the person. Maybe the problem is that I just don't enjoy most social or leisure activities. I just like playing music, and unless I'm going to start a band with the girl that doesn't help.
Jersey Shortie Posted January 24, 2010 Posted January 24, 2010 How about finding a girl that is into music like you are? You can go see bands together or talk about your favorite groups. Also, if you are bored, you need to take a little incentive to maybe break out of your own box and do new things. You might be surprised. I know what for myself tha I don't always think doing something will be fun until I am actually doing it and then I am glad I did it.
D-Lish Posted January 24, 2010 Posted January 24, 2010 When you find someone worth it, you could be watching "The English Patient" for the tenth time and you wouldn't feel that boredom.
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