Johnny M Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 Thoughts? Am I ridiculous for being kind of turned off by this? Yes, you are ridiculous. Just buy him a new mattress.
sonicranger Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 If you haven't seen a "squirter" just google it, theres a lot of "squirter" porn out there. Even if you aren't into porn, just for the useless information of knowing what it is and seeing it, at least a video of it. Back on topic. This totally reminds me of the Sex and the City episode where Carrie is dating this "new" guy and he tells her that he wants to be peed on. LOL, oh I laughed for a long, long time after watching that episode. Basically its YOUR decision, your mind that has to be made up or satisfied with what he's done. IMO, the squirting girl thing is no big deal, I mean, she squirted so what, I've been with a few women who get really really..."creamy" like comparable to male ejaculate...doesn't bother me, it just means that I've got them hot n bothered. The threesome thing, MMF as its called, well ya, A LOT of people would find that to be pretty nasty and/or degrading to the woman. So you are not a lone there. I guarantee though that there are women here, right now, reading this that have either been with two men at once or fantasized about it...I dunno, just one of those things.
Alma Mobley Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 I think it's less about the content of what he told you (though that matters if it bothers you) but that he decided to overshare so early in the dating relationship. Someone above mentioned that he could have a boundary problem. I have known people like that... not good. But really, you don't have to justify why it turns you off to anyone.
DiscoChick Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 Personally, the squirting and mattress thing is just nasty but funny at the same time. Why would he keep the mattress? Anyway, my ex did some pretty strange things when he was younger, but I wasn't really bothered by any of it except the "snowballing." I think that is disgusting, but I had already kissed him by then. *shrugs* I wish I could know something like that earlier on. It's just disturbing...
Author OnlyJake Posted January 25, 2010 Author Posted January 25, 2010 Not that it's especially important, but just to update this thread: I had a Eureka! moment (didn't jump naked out of the bathtub though, sorry) and figured out one of the reasons this guy's revelations made me feel kind of....bleh. I wrote this post up yesterday, but it got lost when LS crashed or whatever happened. Basically, I just explained how the threesome thing came up - it started out as a warning about the other guy who participated in the threesomes (a guy I know; though I've only met him a couple times, but we had just seen him at a party) and turned into "This guy is so amazing with women, see what he got them to do with us."
meerkat stew Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 "This guy is so amazing with women, see what he got them to do with us." Wow, what a silver-tongued devil! And you didn't start taking your clothes off there on the spot?
Author OnlyJake Posted January 26, 2010 Author Posted January 26, 2010 Wow, what a silver-tongued devil! And you didn't start taking your clothes off there on the spot? If I didn't think his friend was a diseased, lascivious sex-addict I would've asked for his number
meerkat stew Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 a diseased, lascivious sex-addict yeah, but what were his bad points?
Author OnlyJake Posted January 26, 2010 Author Posted January 26, 2010 yeah, but what were his bad points? Probably he doesn't have any. Probably the only reason he's gotten so many women to do anything he wants is because he's tall. And extremely good looking. And a player. With an above average penis. And tattoos.
meerkat stew Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 Probably he doesn't have any. Probably the only reason he's gotten so many women to do anything he wants is because he's tall. And extremely good looking. And a player. With an above average penis. And tattoos. OMG, that guy sounds just like my twin other than the "player" part, just replace "above average" with "ginormous," remove the tattoos, and you got me! Well and I'm just good looking, not extremely good looking... o and not that tall, 5'10 1/2. OK... who am I fooling, it's just above average, not ginormous.
stillafool Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 Was just reading in the sex forum and it looks like there's lots of opinions and experiences with threesomes, so decided to post this and see what others think of this. I went out on a few dates with a guy who is a casual friend (the guy who brought a girl on our second date, for anyone who read and recalls any of my other threads). Really liked him for a lot of reasons, was attracted to him, etc. I think I'm going to stop seeing him, though. We were talking recently, and I won't go into details, but in an accidental and completely idiotic turn of events I ended up finding out more about his sexual history than I would ever have wanted to know. It was definitely too early in this relationship to know these things (IMO), and even if we'd been together for awhile I'm not sure I would have ever wanted to know this (I'm not a girl who asks for numbers of partners, I don't want to know those details). Anyways, there's actually two pieces of information that I wish I didn't know; I just feel weird about knowing them for different reasons. The first is he told me about a girl he used to hook up with that would squirt - a lot - like totally gush a gallon of liquid everywhere. He actually told me about how his bedding and mattress would be completely soaked (um, he still has the same mattress ). The second thing is that he used to have threesomes with one of his friends (a guy I've met; I kind of got the sense that this info started out as a warning about this other guy), passing the girl back and forth. Honestly, it wasn't really the fact that he's had threesomes that bothers me, as that "type" of threesome, as described by him, seems kind of disrespectful toward women. I did ask for more details about that and he wouldn't give them, except to say that it was only with women he didn't care about (I think he mentioned this because I knew he'd had threesomes with another girlfriend). Thoughts? Am I ridiculous for being kind of turned off by this? Yuck! that girl sounds disgusting. As for the threesome with his friend, you are right to step away. If I knew a man liked doing threesomes with another man involved I would think he secretly liked looking at his friend's penis and wanted it himself. If he was going to have a threesome it should have been him and two women. I would really, really be turned off by him.
Jersey Shortie Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 I think more ladies would do well in paying attention not only to how a man treats you, but how he decides to treat other women. Especially when he thinks no one is looking.
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