Did you ever bad mouth your ex and then want to get back with them?

[Chitowngirl]

So..my ex and I had a really bad break up. I left him because of his temper. I was SO mad when his mother talked to me and made it sound like her son dumped me, so I wrote his mother (who I loved) a 7 page letter describing specific things he said to me and how horrible he treated me. I also wrote a long email to his ex gf who contacted him once a month or so during our almost 2 yr relationship. I hated her and wanted her to know all the bad things he said about her and that she was wasting her time. I also told his friend that I left him b/c of his temper.

Looking back I shouldn't have done those things, I should have just shut my mouth and walked away and never looked back.

But...8 months have passed and for some crazy reason I have forgiven him and want him back, desperately.

Has anyone ever bad mouthed their ex, especially to their family, and gotten back with them?

[bananaboat11]

My ex dumped me over facebook... bad mouthed me to her friends and her family...

 

if she ever wants me back, holy crap.. ****'s gonna hit the fan!

[ella23]

My ex dumped me over facebook... bad mouthed me to her friends and her family...

 

 

That's awful, but that happens quite often.

One of my exes also badmouthed me to his family and friends, and said **** about me.

[Chitowngirl]

Yeah my ex told people I was bipolar, jealous and crazy. So it's not like he said only nice things about me either.

[ukguy1985]

maybe i am naive, but i think it is just how things go with an ex. one or both bad mouth each other. though there are cases neither does. depends on the personality really i think.