hellopeople Posted January 24, 2010 Posted January 24, 2010 My ex dumped me a few nights ago. BAsically he told me he was afraid of commitment, needed time, blah, blah, blah. But of course he still liked me, but just couldn't be with me. It came out of the blue and hurt me very, very badly (since I had seen him the day before and everything had been great). So I deleted everything - his number, facebook, myspace. I was doing pretty well. Then, tonight, I got a text from him saying "hey". Now, I'll admit, my heart did race a little, but honestly - a text like "hey" is implying everything is ok and we're cool. Um...no. I would have replied if it was a question or he he said he had to talk to me. But "hey"? No way in my opinion does it deserve a response. Plus, I'm he knows I'm hanging with friends and he's probably home alone and bored. Now, do you think I should text him back, or wait for another text with more in it?
Golfilla Posted January 24, 2010 Posted January 24, 2010 Never take back someone who dumps you, EVER. Just move on.
SummerLady Posted January 24, 2010 Posted January 24, 2010 Never take back someone who dumps you, EVER. Just move on. Golfilla is 100% right. Once they dump you its done. This includes walking out on a marriage and needing some space. Once that card is pulled you have to move on.
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