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How would you react if your ex contacts you on Feb. 14 (Valentine's Day)?


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Never



 

drinking

 

again!

 

:sick:

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Never

 

 

drinking

 

again!

 

 

:sick:

 

 

Awww, poor kid... :(

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Well my ex and I are still friend, so we're in contact sometimes. If he were to call me that day then I would say ''Thank you'' and keep talking if he wants to.

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Hey Erica =)

 

 

Basically... I suspect my ex tried calling my phone twice today. the cool thing is, I have an application on it that hangs up on them before I 'receive the call'... you can program in their numbers... and I only programmed in hers.

 

The reason I know she was blocked.. or think she was... because I have another program that shuts off 'open applications' that run in the background... using up battery life of my phone (droid Eris by HTC - the Google Phone). So... when an application is used, or activated on the phone.. it still runs... draining battery life. What I can do is open a menu screen and look at all the running programs. Usually these programs include text messages, my browser, facebook app, etc... today... on different occasions I saw that my call blocking application was activated/on... for no reason. I went to look if my phone automatically updated, but there was no new update for it. I was looking to see if other 'random' applications were opened ... but no. My only conclusion I came to is either my phone is ****ing with my head... or in all seriousness my ex tried to call my phone twice today and assumes I hung up on her both times (which is fine by me)

 

...just, weird...

 

Ohhhh ok, I see what you're saying now. Yeah, that is weird. Oh well!! :D

 

Ah, I was wondering when the legit thread-turned-public conversation between Rob, Erica, and Kelvin would be brought back to life...

 

:lmao: I'm just waiting for this thread to get locked. I know it's coming.

 

Not at all. As long as I can call you ho-bag.

 

Just another Monday evening...can't wait til the end of the week...back to Florida for a pirate fest!

 

That sounds like funnnn!!! Florida is awesome this time of year, it's warm!!

 

Awww, poor kid... :(

 

Ok so 8 glasses of water and 2 ibprofens later, I feel much much better.

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Posted

Never



 

drinking

 

again!

 

:sick:

 

 

Get a prayer or two in last night? :p:lmao:

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Get a prayer or two in last night? :p:lmao:

 

I don't even remember last night! My best friend always makes me take shots back to back... I think I took a total of about 15 shots in an hour and a half. Then I black out and don't remember anything. Not good.

 

Tomorrow is going to be even worse. We are going out for happy hour. That's going to be a veryyyy long night!

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I don't even remember last night! My best friend always makes me take shots back to back... I think I took a total of about 15 shots in an hour and a half. Then I black out and don't remember anything. Not good.

 

Tomorrow is going to be even worse. We are going out for happy hour. That's going to be a veryyyy long night!

 

 

Haha, wow. :p

 

You'd kick my ass in a drinking contest.

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Wow I have to admit... I was down today.. I almost unblocked my ex on FB and broke NC..

 

thank god for good friends in real life :o

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Haha, wow. :p

 

You'd kick my ass in a drinking contest.

 

Haha, i'm irish... what can I say?!

 

Wow I have to admit... I was down today.. I almost unblocked my ex on FB and broke NC..

 

thank god for good friends in real life :o

 

Ahhhhhhhh!!! Thank goodness your friends were there for you!!! Don'tttttt do that! Very bad idea. This female does not care about you, you should not waste your time and energy on her again, ever.

 

Just the thought of her makes me sick :sick:

 

Want me to beat her up?? :lmao:

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Want me to beat her up?? :lmao:

 

 

Did someone say task force...? :)

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Did someone say task force...? :)

 

Hahaha! Want to come Kelvin? You can hold her down...

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Hahhaha, how are you guys this evening? :love:

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Hahhaha, how are you guys this evening? :love:

 

Just got home from work. Dealt with some serious PMS today, I was actually looking forward to talking to you guys!!

 

How are you Rob??

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Hahaha! Want to come Kelvin? You can hold her down...

 

 

Would love to! I'll bring the baseball bats and green hats!

 

 

Hahhaha, how are you guys this evening? :love:

 

I'm peachy.

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Just got home from work. Dealt with some serious PMS today, I was actually looking forward to talking to you guys!!

 

How are you Rob??

 

 

Thanks for the serious TMI! But of course I expect nothing less!

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Just got home from work. Dealt with some serious PMS today, I was actually looking forward to talking to you guys!!

 

How are you Rob??

 

Wow... PMS. serious **** goin' down:p

 

I actually log on now at nights to see if you and kelvin are on :o

 

Would love to! I'll bring the baseball bats and green hats!

 

 

 

 

I'm peachy.

 

I won't break NC. It'll only set me back to unblock her on FB.

 

she's not coming back anyways... so it's good. makes it easier to move on.

 

I can't believe I was stupid today. heh... especially after writing that huge post LOL :sick:

 

glad to hear you're well kelvin

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Sweet... I have successfully started my 'Kiss me thru the phone' / 'telephone' mashup

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Would love to! I'll bring the baseball bats and green hats!

 

YES!! You can put some of that military training to use!

 

Thanks for the serious TMI! But of course I expect nothing less!

 

:lmao: I'm still dealing with it, so watch out ;)

 

Wow... PMS. serious **** goin' down:p

 

I actually log on now at nights to see if you and kelvin are on :o

 

Haha! Be glad you are a male!

 

That's sweet! I love talking to you guys at the end of the day, calms me down from all the craziness I deal with :)

 

Sweet... I have successfully started my 'Kiss me thru the phone' / 'telephone' mashup

 

Awesome!! I love that song! Let me know when you are done!

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Wow... PMS. serious **** goin' down:p

 

I actually log on now at nights to see if you and kelvin are on :o

 

 

Awww...at least you didn't use the ":love:"...that would have been seriously f*cked up...unless you excluded me...then it's perfectly acceptable, as Erica is quite :love:-able. :p

 

But I look forward to seeing both of you on here at night as well.

 

 

 

I won't break NC. It'll only set me back to unblock her on FB.

 

she's not coming back anyways... so it's good. makes it easier to move on.

 

I can't believe I was stupid today. heh... especially after writing that huge post LOL :sick:

 

glad to hear you're well kelvin

 

Yea, that was a pretty epic post you posted. Again, well done. I'm proud of you and your progress through all that.

 

I actually had a bit of an issue today...I had to go down to the gym I joined with my ex that's located about 5 minutes from her house to cancel my account...I didn't realize that they kept me on month-to-month, so I'd been charged for the past few months...

 

I figured she'd still be going regularly...I actually have no idea...but I was rackin' my brain wondering what would happen if I saw her there...I actually stayed awake last night wondering...I wouldn't know what to do or what to say, or whether to come back another time and avoid her altogether...

 

Fortunately she wasn't there when I stopped by...but I'm not gonna lie, I kind of wish I could have seen her... :(

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Awww...at least you didn't use the ":love:"...that would have been seriously f*cked up...unless you excluded me...then it's perfectly acceptable, as Erica is quite :love:-able. :p

 

But I look forward to seeing both of you on here at night as well.

 

 

 

 

Yea, that was a pretty epic post you posted. Again, well done. I'm proud of you and your progress through all that.

 

I actually had a bit of an issue today...I had to go down to the gym I joined with my ex that's located about 5 minutes from her house to cancel my account...I didn't realize that they kept me on month-to-month, so I'd been charged for the past few months...

 

I figured she'd still be going regularly...I actually have no idea...but I was rackin' my brain wondering what would happen if I saw her there...I actually stayed awake last night wondering...I wouldn't know what to do or what to say, or whether to come back another time and avoid her altogether...

 

Fortunately she wasn't there when I stopped by...but I'm not gonna lie, I kind of wish I could have seen her... :(

 

 

Kiss me thru the phone :love:

 

LOL

 

...I'm sorry man. Be strong... emotions are so hard to control. It's not fair... truly. But you know what... they were there to make US better. Whether they know it or not... WE DO. and if we build ourselves back up better than the last... the next one will be better than what came before.

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I think I'm ready to release another song... heh

 

Jay Sean baby.

 

FML.

 

I need to stop listening to JS. His **** depresses me.

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...I'm sorry man. Be strong... emotions are so hard to control. It's not fair... truly. But you know what... they were there to make US better. Whether they know it or not... WE DO. and if we build ourselves back up better than the last... the next one will be better than what came before.

 

 

Yea, I know...it's seriously a load of crap...I often wish that when things ended, she hated me as much you appear to hate your ex...it would make things so much simpler...

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Awww...at least you didn't use the ":love:"...that would have been seriously f*cked up...unless you excluded me...then it's perfectly acceptable, as Erica is quite :love:-able. :p

 

But I look forward to seeing both of you on here at night as well.

 

Haha, aawww! You are quite :love:-able too Kelvin!!

 

Yea, that was a pretty epic post you posted. Again, well done. I'm proud of you and your progress through all that.

 

I actually had a bit of an issue today...I had to go down to the gym I joined with my ex that's located about 5 minutes from her house to cancel my account...I didn't realize that they kept me on month-to-month, so I'd been charged for the past few months...

 

I figured she'd still be going regularly...I actually have no idea...but I was rackin' my brain wondering what would happen if I saw her there...I actually stayed awake last night wondering...I wouldn't know what to do or what to say, or whether to come back another time and avoid her altogether...

 

Fortunately she wasn't there when I stopped by...but I'm not gonna lie, I kind of wish I could have seen her... :(

 

I know how that is. I actually think it's perfectly normal to keep yourself up at night wondering what you are going to say or do if you were to run into your ex (that's only if you are going somewhere where they might be).

 

I'm glad she wasn't there... because that would have stirred up emotions that you've already put behind you. As much as you'd like to have seen her, it's in your best interest that you didn't.

 

Kiss me thru the phone :love:

 

LOL

 

...I'm sorry man. Be strong... emotions are so hard to control. It's not fair... truly. But you know what... they were there to make US better. Whether they know it or not... WE DO. and if we build ourselves back up better than the last... the next one will be better than what came before.

 

Exactly!! It can only get better from here!!

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Haha, aawww! You are quite :love:-able too Kelvin!!

 

 

 

I know how that is. I actually think it's perfectly normal to keep yourself up at night wondering what you are going to say or do if you were to run into your ex (that's only if you are going somewhere where they might be).

 

I'm glad she wasn't there... because that would have stirred up emotions that you've already put behind you. As much as you'd like to have seen her, it's in your best interest that you didn't.

 

 

 

Exactly!! It can only get better from here!!

 

 

See... I speak these words.. and truly believe them, but would I honestly adhere to them? If Nicole came back to me... I don't know what I'd do...

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Yea, I know...it's seriously a load of crap...I often wish that when things ended, she hated me as much you appear to hate your ex...it would make things so much simpler...

 

You'd think so... but it's insane how much energy it takes to hate someone that you once loved. Indifference is the best way to go.

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