Patient Posted January 23, 2010 Posted January 23, 2010 The guy I've been seeing is starting to get on my nerves...I just realized I'm in love with him but I don't communicate my feelings all he knows is that I care for him..but I asked him if he was messing with any other girls and he said does it matter so I told him it does and thats when I told him if I ask a question he needs to give me a straight answer..then I told him some other things and he said I had issues..bascially it was a little argument we had and I told him that I wasn't going to talk to him anymore and he laughed and said ok..well we texted eachother tuesday and my feelings got the best of me and I told him I wasn't going anywhere but I was gonna be a little upset with him for awhile(because I felt really disrespected and got a little hurt) but in the end he knew what time it was and he texted back saying Are you serious? I really feel for him and want things to work..but at the same time I wanna let go..what should I do?why did he ask if I was serious? I havent talked to him in 4 days because I have so many feelings of confusion and love..any advice would help...
FieryDream Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 I want to reply properly, but I need to think about it and then I'll give you my answer, I'm tellin you this (I probs look silly) so uno that u will get a reply, but I want to help you best i can sophie
BG1985 Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 If you feel like you should let him go, then do it. Problem is, you're head-over-heels for this guy and you wish you weren't. This guy obviously doesn't care about you in that way. Are y'all hooking up? Could be he's getting it too easily from you. Either way, if you feel like he's disrespecting you, you should probably leave.
TheLoneSock Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 The guy I've been seeing is starting to get on my nerves...I just realized I'm in love with him but I don't communicate my feelings all he knows is that I care for him..but I asked him if he was messing with any other girls and he said does it matter so I told him it does and thats when I told him if I ask a question he needs to give me a straight answer..then I told him some other things and he said I had issues..bascially it was a little argument we had and I told him that I wasn't going to talk to him anymore and he laughed and said ok..well we texted eachother tuesday and my feelings got the best of me and I told him I wasn't going anywhere but I was gonna be a little upset with him for awhile(because I felt really disrespected and got a little hurt) but in the end he knew what time it was and he texted back saying Are you serious? I really feel for him and want things to work..but at the same time I wanna let go..what should I do?why did he ask if I was serious? I havent talked to him in 4 days because I have so many feelings of confusion and love..any advice would help... IF you think he feels the same way and is just aggitated that you aren't reciprocating the feelings... then stop playing games and tell him how you feel. At that point it's up to him to take it or leave it. The reason you want to let go and abandon ship is because you don't want to expose yourself or feel vulnerable by showing him how you really feel. It's all there. I don't want to say you have a fear of commitment, because that term is tossed around FAR too much these days, but you do obviously have a fear of getting hurt, or of wearing your heart on your sleeve. Grow up and just jump to see where you land. Live a little. You'll regret letting ending this out of fear. And for what? Pride? Self preservation from the 'unknown'? The answer should be clear. Life is short, don't waste it on fear.
BG1985 Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 This guy knows how she feels since she is being jealous about his seeing other girls. He knows what's going on.
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