irspen Posted January 23, 2010 Posted January 23, 2010 Hello, Not sure if this is the right forum but here it is anyway... A few months ago I met someone from university (assigned to a same project group) but we never really started talking much until last November. But once we started chatting (online, on the phone, in person) I felt we connected pretty well. Throughout December and January we went out to see movies, dinners, and just hung out together, we even spent new years ever together just the two of us. However all of these outings were just as friends . From talking to her I knew she had recently split up with her boyfriend of 3 years (around october of last year). During one of our outings i confessed i had feelings for her but she said she wasn't ready for another relationship yet and said she hopes i can meet a nice girl... Since then we've chatted a few more times and have been out for dinner but we act as if the conversation where i revealed my feelings never happend. There is no awkwardness though (that followed immediately after i confessed..! haha) So, is this just her way of letting me down gently because shes not interested in me?? I'm willing to wait until she's ready for another relationship but i'm not even sure if she's attracted to me or has the same feelings I do for her. I know its hard to gauge a situation from just a post(since you cant watch our interaction as if it were a tv show!) but any advice or opinions you guys can give would be great Thanks! PS - Does it sound like i've just dropped myself in the friend zone?
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