whatwentwrong19 Posted January 23, 2010 Posted January 23, 2010 (edited) Hi my name is Raymond and right now I'm using my older cousin's sn. I don't really know how to subscribe unto this so he let me use his. Alright so the problem is about this girl in my high school. My friends and I bet 40 bucks to go along with the plan of dating an ugly overweight girl with glasses. On top of that she has very few friends, never kissed nor asked out on a date, and dresses up in long skirts (old-fashioned style). Let me start saying that it was my friends' idea and I didn't really wanted to go along with it. The problem is the plan got ruined because I still want to be with her. I don't see her ugly no more. In fact I like her (I think I have fallen in love). It's been almost 2 months into dating her and my friend keep wondering what's taking so long. They don't know I have fallen for her and I don't want to go along with the bet. What do I do now? 1) Accept the 40 bucks but risk losing her, my friends will tell her about anyways if I don't tell and she'll hate me 2) Tell her the truth and apologize like crazy, hoping she'll forgive and we continue dating 3) Refuse to go along with the bet but lose all my 4 friends and be the laughing stock of the school to which they will still tell her and I'll lose her for sure 4) Write her a letter explaining I didn't mean to use her and right below ask if she can forgive me Edited January 23, 2010 by whatwentwrong19
SOLACEMENT Posted January 23, 2010 Posted January 23, 2010 Ah! ... I seen a movie like this once Make sure she doesn't get on the plane
Absolutely Curtains Posted January 23, 2010 Posted January 23, 2010 Rachel Leigh Cooke forgave Freddy Prinze Jr.....
Author whatwentwrong19 Posted January 23, 2010 Author Posted January 23, 2010 Ah! ... I seen a movie like this once Make sure she doesn't get on the plane Alright so what I do? If she finds out she'll probably not talk to me ever again. Is there a way I can tell her and continue dating her without hurting her? I don't care about the bucks nor playing games no more. Think she'll forgive me?
tami-chan Posted January 23, 2010 Posted January 23, 2010 Tell her the truth...and grow a pair and stand up for what your heart desires..... Wait...you are in high school? you and your friends are very mean...not to worry, some woman will one day treat you like crap...and when that happens remember this girl...
SOLACEMENT Posted January 23, 2010 Posted January 23, 2010 Rachel Leigh Cooke forgave Freddy Prinze Jr..... HEY! HEY! Dont give him any false hope ... it was a movie for christs sake..lol kidding Not to sure if you are serious dude ...but grow a sack and just tell her
Author whatwentwrong19 Posted January 23, 2010 Author Posted January 23, 2010 Tell her the truth...and grow a pair and stand up for what your heart desires..... Wait...you are in high school? you and your friends are very mean...not to worry, some woman will one day treat you like crap...and when that happens remember this girl... I didn't want to go along with it. My friends do that all the time but this was my first time I ever participated in this. They kept insisting for me to join in. I only did it so they would shut up and wouldn't consider me a wimp. I never intended to hurt a girl before. The more I'm dating her, the overwhelming guilt. I hope she forgives me and still wants to be with me. Yes I'm on my sophomore year.
Author whatwentwrong19 Posted January 23, 2010 Author Posted January 23, 2010 HEY! HEY! Dont give him any false hope ... it was a movie for christs sake..lol kidding Not to sure if you are serious dude ...but grow a sack and just tell her What if she never talks to me again?
SOLACEMENT Posted January 23, 2010 Posted January 23, 2010 Well you would of got what you deserve... just try...you cant blame her if her she is mad... you treated her like a game Why am I replying to this?
Author whatwentwrong19 Posted January 23, 2010 Author Posted January 23, 2010 Well you would of got what you deserve... just try...you cant blame her if her she is mad... you treated her like a game Why am I replying to this? I know but I have fallen for her. I have never felt like this for a girl. So you're saying there's no way I can make it up for her?
txsilkysmoothe Posted January 23, 2010 Posted January 23, 2010 I bet she will join the Peace Corps and go away for two years. To make it up to her join the Peace Corps also; drive to her house and apologize; surprise her with the news that the two of you will be in the Peace Corps together.
tigressA Posted January 23, 2010 Posted January 23, 2010 Well first, sure you're in high school, and reputation seems to be everything, but you're very weak for going along with your "friends". If they were really your friends they wouldn't have tried so hard to get you to do something if you really didn't want to do it. I had real friends in high school--the kind who didn't ever try to get me to do something I didn't want to. I say come clean with the girl. I've had an experience like this, not in high school but in college--a guy claimed to like me and want to date me, but then I found out it was a bet to see how long it would take to nail me. I didn't find out from the guy; his friends came to me and told me under the guise of wanting to be nice, but it wasn't hard to figure out they were all in on it. This kind of thing is incredibly hurtful and I don't understand how people can engage in it and be able to convince themselves it's all fun and games. This is a person you and your "friends" have toyed with. A person with a heart, a brain, with feelings that you took advantage of all out of fear of being called a "wimp". I would eventually forgive you if I were that girl, but I would never want to talk to or see you again. If for whatever reason this girl would still want to be with you after you confess (and you better be the one to do it; she will feel even more betrayed if your "friends" 'fess up to her), you should also, with that newfound courage, dump your "friends" and find new ones.
Rainman760 Posted January 23, 2010 Posted January 23, 2010 Drive to her house, park across the street and while standing next to your car, put Peter Gabreil's "In Your Eyes" on your boom-box and then hold it really high over your head until she forgives you. wait...maybe that's for when she's confused cuz her Dad thinks she's too good for you and she's going to college abroad or something.
SadandConfusedWA Posted January 23, 2010 Posted January 23, 2010 OP, If you aspire to become a successful troll, and it looks like you do, click on the thread below (by Chip something) and take notes.
Rainman760 Posted January 23, 2010 Posted January 23, 2010 [sIZE=5][FONT=Calibri, Verdana, Helvetica, Arial]Or if the boom-box trick doesn’t work I would try this: Go over to your best friends house and scan a Barbie doll, a picture of Albert Einstein and some playboy centerfold clippings into his computer. After a real, living, smokin’ hot girl comes out, throw a big party and then hide in the bathroom. When a bunch of scary biker dudes show up, go out and kick their asses. Then end up with the girl you wanted all along. Easy. [/FONT][/sIZE]
Author whatwentwrong19 Posted January 23, 2010 Author Posted January 23, 2010 I bet she will join the Peace Corps and go away for two years. To make it up to her join the Peace Corps also; drive to her house and apologize; surprise her with the news that the two of you will be in the Peace Corps together. I would be willing to do this. Anything to make it up to her. I say come clean with the girl. I've had an experience like this, not in high school but in college--a guy claimed to like me and want to date me, but then I found out it was a bet to see how long it would take to nail me. I didn't find out from the guy; his friends came to me and told me under the guise of wanting to be nice, but it wasn't hard to figure out they were all in on it. This kind of thing is incredibly hurtful and I don't understand how people can engage in it and be able to convince themselves it's all fun and games. This is a person you and your "friends" have toyed with. A person with a heart, a brain, with feelings that you took advantage of all out of fear of being called a "wimp". I would eventually forgive you if I were that girl, but I would never want to talk to or see you again. If for whatever reason this girl would still want to be with you after you confess (and you better be the one to do it; she will feel even more betrayed if your "friends" 'fess up to her), you should also, with that newfound courage, dump your "friends" and find new ones. Yes sadly I'll have to face the music and risk losing her for good. I'll be ready by Monday. Understanding if she doesn't want to see me or talk to me again. That's what I deserve for being a jerk. Now I'm going to start composing my apology letter and give to her on Monday.
tigressA Posted January 23, 2010 Posted January 23, 2010 Now I'm going to start composing my apology letter and give to her on Monday. A letter? No. Man up--grow a pair and do it in person, face-to-face, or not only will she be pissed at you, you'll have lived up to the threatened title of "wimp".
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