misskat Posted January 23, 2010 Posted January 23, 2010 ok this may get long but i really need some help a little over 2 years ago i met blake and fell absolutely in love with him....the problem was that he was engaged. however he felt the same for me. we just seem to understand each other and clicked right away. we started a relationship despite his being engaged and saw each other whenever we could. in the meantime i dated other guys and he stayed engaged. as you would expect this didnt work out well he asked me to stop dating and i begged him not to get married since i didnt stop dating he ended up getting married even after i begged him not to. even after his marriage we continued our relationship. eventually i gave up but we chose to stay friends. we still hung out with groups of friends but not alone. i ended up meeting his cousin nate and we flirted and ended up hitting it off and i told blake i was interested in him. he didnt like this...but at this point i didnt care. nate and i have dated for over a year now. during this time blake and i have had sex off and on a few times there is just something there that neither of us can walk away from....he is now getting divorced and has moved into his own place. however it has been since july since we have been together and things seemed to have calmed down and we decided it needed to be over. we also both know that no matter what happens we can never be together...it would kill nate. i am now 5 months pregnant with nates child. i thought it was all over with blake until the other night i had a very vivid dream about him and have not been able to get him out of my head. he also came up to me and started flirting again. so now the feelings that i have for him have come out again. he knows the feelings i have been having for him. we have not been together yet but i can sense that it is heading there. i love blake very much and can not help feeling that i made a big mistake by getting involved with nate even tho i do love him it is just not the same kind of love. i dont feel passion with nate the way i do when i am with blake. nate and i have been fighting alot lately and we dont see each other much except on the weekends because we work different shifts we both know that things are not good between us but want to stay together for our baby. nate does not know that blake and i have ever had any sort of relationship other than friendship i really need some advice on what i should do please dont judge me too harshly there is alot that i didnt put in here and alot that other people wouldnt understand about blake and myself.
txsilkysmoothe Posted January 23, 2010 Posted January 23, 2010 he asked me to stop dating and i begged him not to get married since i didnt stop dating he ended up getting married even after i begged him not to. Do you really think that is why he got married? Seriously? I think you both have very big egos and take selfishness to a new height. You and Blake deserve eachother.... er, I mean.... deserve to be together forever. It just had to be his cousin, didn't it? As to what you should do, ask NATE! I think he will tell you what you need to do.
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