kalena9488 Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 So, why do you think someone would make accounts on hookup sites but then not actually go back and visit them?
CarrieT Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 So, why do you think someone would make accounts on hookup sites but then not actually go back and visit them? Some of us create those accounts in the heat of the moment, at a time of desperation, or late at night when we are terribly horny. And ultimately they prove disappointing. I will readily admit to having created such profiles and have had such mediocre or scary responses that I haven't bothered going back to said sites. Also, in one case, even though I deleted my profile, I found out later that it was never removed (probably because female profiles are less prevalent).
Author kalena9488 Posted January 22, 2010 Author Posted January 22, 2010 Should I be concerned? Trust me he gets as much and anything he wants any time.
CarrieT Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Should I be concerned? Trust me he gets as much and anything he wants any time. I have no idea what you are talking about or what you are concerned about (without researching your other posts). You asked a question in a vacuum and I answered it as generally as I could from one stand-point.
dazzle22 Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Should I be concerned? Trust me he gets as much and anything he wants any time. Been there, seen that, confronted that...my answer is DEPENDS...sometimes it lets them see more of the site if they have a profile, ie. just more porn and pics of members that are more graphic. Other times, I think they like to see if they can get attention. And some people of both sexes just seem to be attention whores IMHO...And just because they are in a relationship, does not mean they give up on all of it. Before my husband and I were engaged, I saw his hookup site, (inactive, by the dates of activity) but boy, does he know what women like to hear...at least 40 hits per day, of women wanting to hook up..I think it is exciting for them...open your "mailbox", and wow, 40 new women who want to boink you if you are in the area and in the mood. Kind of like fishing I think! Just trolling around, no intention necessarily to "reel one in"... And then the third, and in my opinion, the DANGEROUS category. True trolling for real flesh...but if he never went back, I would say, category one or two..But just a word of advice, don't ever confront or mention you found it. Will get you exactly....no where. Although you might find the excuses creative...
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