chloe1408 Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 ive posted abit on here my and me ex had a very intense loving relationship for over a year, until 6 weeks ago when he left me out of the blue for a 16 year old girl who lives a half hour drive away. it wont last, i know this. ive reached a point where i can see logically now. i miss him like hell, but he's been playing mind games with me ever since we split, telling me he hates me, then telling me he loves me, then claiming he never sent the messages. He refuses to let me move on but he can of course be happy with his new girlfriend. Well anyway, today i snapped. I sobbed my heart out. He was meant to get his stuff. Didnt show. So i sent him a message. Said that i loved him very much, but wasnt in love with him anymore, that its something i never thought i'd say, but the way he's been to me, I could never be in love with him. I said that his new gf would be in my position in a few months time, and that he wont see it now, but i loved him more than anyone will, and that i gave up alot for him. I wished him the best of luck and said that he will sure as hell need it. AND THEN i got all of his stuff, and dumped them on his doorstep in the pouring rain. He had six weeks to get them. I miss him like hell, but i feel so good. I'm positive he'll come running, and when he does? i'll take great satisfaction in turning him down.
gaudi Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 I feel for you hun. But it sounds like your ready to take it into your own hands and deal with it. I know you've said that's it. And you've made your decision. You can't love him anymore. But it's the next bit that's going to be the hardest, I mean sticking to it. You have to have the will power to go through with it if it's what you really have to do. And if you believe you are ready to go through with it and it's final, you have to be totally strong when he contacts you........because he will. Good Luck to you.
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