RyTom21 Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 I'm not the typical guy. Ever since I was younger I've been teased for being different. I like romantic comedies, i hate sports, i like bands like five for fighting and maroon 5, my favorite drinks are mikes hard lemonade and smirnoff ice, I'm romantic, i like to cuddle. and I actually care about and respect women. God it makes me sick just saying that stuff. Not because I think those qualities are bad, but because I just want to fit in. Girls like bad boys, and I'm definitely not a bad boy. Am i worrying too much? Would any girls out there date a guy like this?
Kristine Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Yes you'll definitely meet a woman who loves those things about you. Not every girl is looking for a bad boy, that's a youth thing. Eventually you'll meet the woman who appreciates not having to be a guy to be around a guy.
someotherguy Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 You're making a serious mistake in the way you are interpreting yourself. The things you like and the way you act are two entirely different things. You can like watching crappy movies on the lifetime network, yet be very confident and assertive with women. The trick is to be happy and confident in who you are, and you'll attract women who like those qualities in you. Don't sell yourself short, just be as witty, charming, and funny as you happen to be, and keep your chin up. Eventually, you'll find a woman that knocks your socks off that loves you just the way you are. Also, remember that it's great to respect women, but turn it down a few notches in the bedroom. It's alright to pull her hair a bit, spank her, talk a little dirty, etc. That cute, quiet, shy girl might just surprise you...
Itzo Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 You're making a serious mistake in the way you are interpreting yourself. The things you like and the way you act are two entirely different things. You can like watching crappy movies on the lifetime network, yet be very confident and assertive with women. The trick is to be happy and confident in who you are, and you'll attract women who like those qualities in you. Don't sell yourself short, just be as witty, charming, and funny as you happen to be, and keep your chin up. Eventually, you'll find a woman that knocks your socks off that loves you just the way you are. Also, remember that it's great to respect women, but turn it down a few notches in the bedroom. It's alright to pull her hair a bit, spank her, talk a little dirty, etc. That cute, quiet, shy girl might just surprise you... I agree with someotherguy. The things that attract women are subconscious & mostly non-intuitive for men. Being nice ... is nice ... but you are not going to get attraction, but affection. The problem with the affection is that you ARE more likely to be 'just friends.' Attraction is build upon sexual tension & that is BE A CHALLENGE for get ... hard to get you know be misterious ... and for god sake do not chase women. The natural thing after you CHASE something after this is TO RUN! DO not try to impress a woman ... most nice guys are really trying hard, it is like trying to convince her to be attracted to you. This is not going to happen ... unless you are from another galaxy
OceanTropic Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Nothing you describe is out of the ordinary. You think bad boys don't like to cuddle and watch romantic comedies? I have tons of guys friends who are very promiscuous and "bad*ss" yet complain to me that they can't find a girl to be romantic with. Don't kid yourself, bad*ss is a stereotype for men who pretend not to care. Deep down, many of them are just like you. Trust me on this one.
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