duece22022 Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 please someone tell me a reason why i shouldn't send my ex a letter that i wrote to her.
Silver_star Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Go ahead, send it. But know that it is going to make you look desperate and clingy. Not very attractive qualities. Oh yea, and because you are clearly not over her it is only going to hurt when you get either NO response, or little response or a response you dont want to hear. This letter is not changing your breakup situation, and it is not sending you straight into her arms "as a friend"...so just leave her alone so you can let your heart heal enough to get over her. To the point where u dont feel u need to send her a letter to know how you feel, or to see whats going on in her life. Dont do it.
sunrae Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Zeegagge and Silver Star, both hit the nail on the head.... Listen to their advice.
HLP234 Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Have you told her all you needed to say when you guys broke up? You should have done that then because now that letter will not do anything. It won't change her mind or make her feel sorry for you. Like everyone says, you may expect a response and you will not get one or you will get one that also requires you to think you need to write back. Pretend you sent it and don't. Put that off and think about it in a few weeks or months. You will feel stronger knowing you haven't sent anything. What is it accomplishing if you give her a letter? We expect it to give closure or make ourselves feel better by having the last word but it never works like that.
gaudi Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 You are only ready to send a letter to an EX when you no longer feel the urge to send one.
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