SleepingDog Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 No - don't tell him. It was just a kiss, it could easy have been far worse and he had the strength not to take it further. That is quite an achievement in itself, and as far as I am concerned he has remained faithful and deserves a medal for courage in the face of the enemy. But his girlfriend will not see it that way and may be devastated anyway, you will start a whole mill of needless suspicion running and could REALLY and up destroying all of your lives. But I do believe I detect a pang of regret on your part that it did not develop further?
atlnay Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 I just want to know if YOU were HER, would you want to hear from me or not? Thanks. Nope. If I were her, you could keep it to yourself, if I'm still with him, I'm good.
DestroyerOfWorlds Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 You did the right thing 5 years ago by backing away from his advances...good for you. However, this is someone whom it sounds like you got along well quite well with and really seemed to have a mostly positive opinion of. He was much older but you say you didn't feel taken advantage of or didn't think his advance was creepy. So if you and this guy were friends at one point in time, have lost contact without any hard feelings, and you and he are both in long term relationships...I see no reason why it would even cross your mind to want to possibly ruin his life now. It happened, it was a mistake that you prevented from escalating...you all ready did your good deed concerning his wife by not letting things progress any further than they did. Feel proud of yourself for that and forget about it.
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