OpenGL Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Yeah, and you are adamant about being an internet tough guy, getting off on calling men losers with no possibility of recourse, just as bad if not worse than anyone who complains about dating problems with women here. You aren't fooling anybody. You know, I really respect how you tactfully call people out on their BS on a daily basis
BackUpOrGetStung Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 I don't how "exciting" I really am; used the word to mock you since you seemed to be doing the same. What do I provide them with? I'm not sure, but I think I'm just easy to talk to and I listen to what they have to say. I'm also good at coming up with new things to try or ways to make everyday things fun and interesting. I also don't have a problem admitting my own flaws or when I'm wrong. Once I've done all this, providing them with sexual excitement is, of course, a given...and I'm good at that too. If you're not trying, then why do you even come here? Do you really waste all your time here, just to whine, and not learn anything to help yourself? It does appear this way, but I feel compelled to at least give you the benefit of the doubt by asking. OpenGL, I addressed my original message to you as well, and I see I did not make a mistake in doing so.
OpenGL Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 If you're not trying, then why do you even come here? Do you really waste all your time here, just to whine, and not learn anything to help yourself? It does appear this way, but I feel compelled to at least give you the benefit of the doubt by asking. OpenGL, I addressed my original message to you as well, and I see I did not make a mistake in doing so. I used to come here for advice but after discovering how deceitful/ignorant/shallow women really are I'm just here to woman bash and to open the eyes of other men by informing them the truth about women and the game. I think me, beta, cognac are already there. Hopefully others will follow.
BackUpOrGetStung Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 Meerkat Stew, I'm not getting off on putting others down, I'm just calling it like I see it. He is not a loser because women aren't attracted to him, he is a loser because all he does is complain about it, blame others, and get sarcastic and obnoxious with those who try to help him, then uses the excuse "he doesn't try" to pretend like he doesn't even want to be bothered with women. He then returns to this forum the next day to repeat the process.
meerkat stew Posted January 22, 2010 Posted January 22, 2010 He then returns to this forum the next day to repeat the process. Sure, we all see that. What's the point of calling anyone losers, though? They came in the door feeling like losers in certain aspects, or they wouldn't be complaining. Sorry for my previous tone to you, I don't know you or your posting history.
BackUpOrGetStung Posted January 23, 2010 Posted January 23, 2010 The point of calling them losers is because no one else has yet. Everyone that I've seen talk to them has just encouraged their behavior, by not being completely honest with them and repeatedly trying to give them advice, that they clearly don't want. I always tell the kids I coach that "You're only a loser if you don't try." I always felt I might be BSing when I said that to them, but now I realize how true of a statement it is. These guys don't try, and worse, they get bitter and upset that they don't win. I'm tired of wasting my time trying, and watching others try to help gutless, spineless, ball-less, hopeless losers. They are trolls that enjoy getting other people, with real issues, worked up, because it seems to be the only way anyone will notice them.
paddington bear Posted January 23, 2010 Posted January 23, 2010 Aw poor Pizzaman (edit - this read like it was sarcastic, and isn't, just to clarify)
someotherguy Posted January 23, 2010 Posted January 23, 2010 10 tips for 'beta' males to be 'exciting' to women that like 'nice guys' : 1. Intelligent conversation. Seriously, most 'betas' think their mind is their greatest asset, so prove it 2. Share or build common interests in music, art, literature, or other entertainment 3. Be yourself, don't put up fronts. "Fake it 'til you make it" works for confidence, but not for most other personality traits 4. Listen to what she says and pay attention to her actions. She may say she's shy, but her body language may be screaming for you to kiss her, so just do it already 5. Display respect, both for yourself and for her. Don't let play games and don't let her take advantage of you, that tends to be relationship quicksand 6. Show your interest in creative ways: poetry, karaoke, etc 7. Thoughtful, surprising touches and little gifts, not ostentatious ones, you're not trying to buy her affection, you're trying to show her you listen to what she says about her likes and interests. 'Nice' girls tend to like flowers and other pretty or good-smelling things. Hint, hint. 8. Learn to be good at giving oral sex. This one maybe should be #1 9. Make her an awesome mix cd of music you share, after you've been together a couple months, not all love songs 10. Do not always be available waiting on her beck and call, she likes you for who you are, and that includes the impact your friends have on you, so keep spending time with them without her, you'll both be thankful as time goes on, encourage her to spend time with her friends, you don't want to have either of you feel isolated or smothered
sally4sara Posted January 23, 2010 Posted January 23, 2010 10 tips for 'beta' males to be 'exciting' to women that like 'nice guys' : 1. Intelligent conversation. Seriously, most 'betas' think their mind is their greatest asset, so prove it 2. Share or build common interests in music, art, literature, or other entertainment 3. Be yourself, don't put up fronts. "Fake it 'til you make it" works for confidence, but not for most other personality traits 4. Listen to what she says and pay attention to her actions. She may say she's shy, but her body language may be screaming for you to kiss her, so just do it already 5. Display respect, both for yourself and for her. Don't let play games and don't let her take advantage of you, that tends to be relationship quicksand 6. Show your interest in creative ways: poetry, karaoke, etc 7. Thoughtful, surprising touches and little gifts, not ostentatious ones, you're not trying to buy her affection, you're trying to show her you listen to what she says about her likes and interests. 'Nice' girls tend to like flowers and other pretty or good-smelling things. Hint, hint. 8. Learn to be good at giving oral sex. This one maybe should be #1 9. Make her an awesome mix cd of music you share, after you've been together a couple months, not all love songs 10. Do not always be available waiting on her beck and call, she likes you for who you are, and that includes the impact your friends have on you, so keep spending time with them without her, you'll both be thankful as time goes on, encourage her to spend time with her friends, you don't want to have either of you feel isolated or smothered This is awesome advise. All things that I would respond to in a positive manner.
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